Quite a Story to Tell

It's about the 4th one..

2011-03-22T16:17:00.000+08:00

I've been mind blogging all the while..just can't find a time to slot for this updating session..:p..This entry will bring back my memory on my latest pregnancy story..hihi..

A lil bit on 'The day I knew about it..'

I still remember on my reaction the moment I knew that I was pregnant, again!! I nearly broke down into tears..not that I was ungrateful on His gift..it is just that I'm not expected it could be so soon. Even the gynae scold me like I did a very big sin..ddespite thos feelings, sempat juga aku bersujud syukur dgn nikmat-Nya, in which at a later time I realized that the kiblat was wrong!!..ngehe..itu pun setelah di sapa JC..apekah?..:p

I tried not to tell anybody. Even my boss didn't notice until I'm 4 months pregnant. Alhamdulillah the pregnancy went so smooth..No MCs were taken during my pregnancy!!..Yup..I don't really like to take MCs..huh..

A lil bit about my 4th delivery process.

The day has come. Knowing that the baby has been growing like a champion in my womb, I prayed so hard that it will not reach 4 flat.

On 17th, we went for check up at early morning. As expected, the gynae decided to check 'bukaan'. Haish..ngeris and ngilus masih terngiang di kepala hotakku..then she said it's already 2cm dilated, and bukaan dh lembut..anytime..that means no work for today...( aiyoo..claim blom submit..:p) me terjerit jerit gak la bile dia selok tuh..huhu..the gynae said, by doing that, it helps to fasten the delivery proces..she did not reccomended for any other procedures i.e induce etc..and kept on saying that she wants the delivery process to be as natural as it can be..ok..whatever la doc and I just can't let the baby membesar sebagai johan di dalam perutku..

Then, the process of booking the ward and what not started..The hubby that was supposed to go to office after check up done need to cancel his plan..nasib dia ikut check up..:-)..I got quite a big room ..but still it can't reduce the 'debaran' menanti kelahiran the 4th one..idup lagi ke aku nnti?..sian bebudak ni nnti xde mak..itule kerisauan yg melanda sebenanye..Huhu..

Once settled down at ward, hubby went back home to get my things..while waiting, I called mak and MIL just to inform that I've already warded..and asked them to pray for me..both maks tak senang perut when I told themabout me getting to deliver soon..nyesal plak bitau awal2..Not long after that, MIL called and inform that she was on the way..aiyoo..so fast action..and I was so touched lah..

But the contraction that was supposed to be in smaller gap and more pain suddenly dissappear..main2 tau..after Asar, MIL,BIL and my kids arrived at ward..meriah le ward tu kejap..until after maghrib I can feel the real contraction started to be constant..I went for maghrib prayer before it starts to be regular and pain..then, I took Quran to recite surah Yassin(coincidently, it was Friday nite) but can't finish it since the pain was so unbearable..I asked hubby to call the nurse. The bidan then check ( again ) the bukaan and it was 3-4 dilated.
Then, she decided to push me to the labor room. On the way ( I was on the wheel chair) the water break..byk nye rase air ketuban tu keluar..then, the bidan asked whether I want an epidural or not..I decided not to take lah..takut if ade side effect ke hape..but I do request for the pqin killer in which I don't think it helps much pon..

Then the process begin..contraction getting more and more pain (sessi mencubit husben sekuat hati took place..sorry dear, can't help it to cubit you..believe me the cubitan was nothing compared to the pain i had to bear okeh..).When it was already 6cm, the urge to push came..rase cam nak teberak gitu..mmg tokleh hold dah..after 2nd push..the baby came out and I didn't expect it will be that easy (eceh..dh lepas boleh la ckp senang kan?)..The moment I heard him crying..all the pain I went thru gone just like that..it's a magic feeling..Seriously...:-)..Alhamdulillah..I said it again and again..I put him on my chest and nearly to cry..oh dear, no regret for having you in my womb for 9 months..:-)..hoping that you will be healthy always..:)

A lil bit on 'Tips while in the labor room'..

1) As a Muslim
- bykkan selawat
- baca doa nabi Yunus

2) While contraction
- don't make a lot of movement but in my experience i just can't help it..according to the bidan, lepas besalin kang baru rase sakit segala badan and memang pon!
- if ur hubby ada menemani di tepi katil, cubit lah dia utk share the pain..(tis is just my theory..xyh ikut kalu xmo..:p)

3) While meneran
   - lekapkan dagu kt dada
   - don't make so much noise. Tutup mulut..
   - jgn angkat b*nt*t..takut tekoyak byk..

That's all i can remember..hope itt helps those of u yg nk deliver soon or not so soon..:p

Quick Update

2011-01-19T00:29:00.000+08:00

1.This entry is posted via BlogBooster App on my iPad. The app is actually design for an iPhone and I found it too small if it is to be run on iPad. Hope the iPad version will be out soon (ohh..actually the app didn't really works lah..now i'm using safari..:p)

2. I'm supposed to sleep by now but my eyes disagree..and the baby too..

3. Tomorrow will be my 35th week check up.. How time flies and didn't realize dat I'm gonna be a mom of 4 soon. I hope and pray to Allah that everything will be fine.. Please pray for me and my bff Ourul too..:-)

4. I have no heart to work now and hoping dat the 3 months maternity leave will be applied to management level soon. Now only Nube & Abom..sigh..:-(

5. I'm torn between blackberry and iphone and none of the mentioned items..you are open to give me some opinion..:-)

6. Now I'm hungry and need to find something to eat before I sleep. I don't feel so much of guilty for eating at this hour coz I know it's the bb that hungry.. Not the mummy..;-)

Good nite lovely people.. Muahssss...:-)

Cerita Bergambar..

2010-11-02T00:51:00.003+08:00

Dah lama rasenya x letak gambar kt blog ni..Okeh this entry will have less words but more picture..:-)

Cik Syafi in Action..she likes reading books (harap smp besar!!) and stay up smp kol 10.30pm..time ok, bolehlah ku layan..tapi kalu asik dok menangis, kusumbat je masuk buai..huhu..

My kids..Clockwise..~Syafi nak naik basikal dgn ayah..dia mmg suka mengambil angin di luar~Hmm..I don't know what is Abg Long thinking when he put the big botoi at his mouth..still a baby?..haish dia mmg manja telebih dari adik2 dia~Daughter of mine~Iman mmg suke buli ayah dia soh urut kaki..tak pepasal org tgk tibi dia pi hulur kaki dia soh urut..ntah perangai sape dia ikut!!..:p~

The Legend International Water Homes,PD ~ Ohh..ini gambar sudah agak basi..we went there on the way back home from kampung on the Hari Raya holiday..A bit of drama before we reach here. Initial plan was cancelled and I was so pissed off at him..Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit..hehe..but, everything seems to be so fine once menjejakkan kaki di sini..sgt cantik and mendamaikan..yg bestnya, each bilik ada private swimming pool..Iman telah menerjunkan dirinya di kolam 4 kaki itu dan terkapai-kapai nasib lah pakciknya come to a rescue..lepas tu, langsung dh tanak mandi over kt kolam..berani main kt tepi je..hampeh..will come again next time..byk lagi tmpt dia x explore..x sempat..

Adik Mat Ayam kawen ~ peristiwa ini baru je berlaku last Saturday. Dah 3 orang adik Mat Ayam kawen..and he is still a pengapit yang setia..sian asik kene usik dgn makciks & pakciks..As usual, dia hanya mampu tersengih saje..before balik, we told him that hopefully his turn will be next year and boleh la buat reunion skali..btw, dia kirim salam kt kengkawan yg masih igt kat dia..;-)

At a Glance - Rumah kami yg masih belum siap sepenuhnya..langsir pon blum tempah..oopss, we have no langsir but totally blinds..ini seme idea JC..rupa opis agaknya rumah kami tu nanti...:p

Mari Mengorek Tabung..:)

2010-10-25T01:21:00.000+08:00

Rumah kami dah nak siap renovate..tinggal touch up sket2..insyaAllah, bulan 12 kami dok la rumah baru tuh..byk mende yg nak buat tapi terpakse ku pendam saje buat masa sekarang..buat yg penting dulu..haih, nak deko rumah pon takde skill..dan minat pon kureng..kesian lah lakiku dapat bini yg xde skill menghias rumah..penat dah ku belek2 buku2 yg di beli and website2 yg bekenaan..

Nak pilih langsir pon satu hal..the other half prefered to put blinds at most of the tingkaps..and me as usual, menurut saje since me don't have any ideas on the langsir mahupun blind itu..and I don't really like scallop and apelah2 yg over decorate the langsir..Then, I tried to call this person who offered a free quotation on the blinds & curtains.. while they took measurement and calculating the cost, I asked JC - tekelah bape agaknye diorg ni quote. And he guess it just around 3k++..in which I don't think so.and guess how much? it's around 7k++..in which it is so out of budget. In fact, kami lupa nak masukkan bajet langsir nih dlm belanjawan utk rumah ni..huhu..musnah harapan..Nilai 3 je lah jawap nye ye..ngehehe..

Itu baru cerita langsir..nih ada lagi senarai harapan yg masih terbuku di hati ini, in which the other half not really in favor to have it..at the moment..

Wish list:-

1) New TV Plasma or LCD..32 inch pon jadik lah..tapi lakiku nk soh guna je tv skang yg dibeli before kawen lagi..huhuhu..nih kalu dia xnak jugak, aku pi je senheng sensorang swipe for 0% interest 12 mth instolmen..:p

2) Laminate floor at living hall..i so minat laminate flooring. tapi nih kene put at 2nd phase (yg xtau ntah bile)..

3) New Sofa yg tgh sale kt lorenzo tuh..leather seat lah..lagi best kalu yg siap ada decliner tuh..

4) New Meja Makan- ni x bape penting sbb meja makan yg ada kt umah tu masih elok dan buleh di pakai..tgk lah kot2 tetiba terbeli plak meja boleh laras kt IKEA tu kang..

and the list goes on..

Aku hanya manusia biasa..tak pernah puas dengan apa yang ada..Namun, aku sangat bersyukur dgn segala rezeki dan nikmat hidup yang Engkau limpahkan..

Dan semoga aku sentiasa menjadi hambaMu yg bersyukurr..:)..Amin ya rabbal Alaminn..

Err.ada sesapa nk sponsor wish list di atas nun..?..

Mari Menabung..

2010-10-07T14:01:00.003+08:00

I went to Tabung Haji yesterday purposely to deposit all my kids Duit Raya collection. Takut kalau hold lama2, terguna dan terhabis pulak.Their duit raya collection taklah selebat mana, biasa2 je tapi alhamdulillah ada la jugak. This year mmg kami tak beraya sakan. Lebih kurang macam tahun lepas jugak..Open hse pon satu rumah jek kami pegi.Itupon jiran selang beberapa rumah. Tetamu pon takde yg dtg..mmg takde buat open hse. Tetamu wajip setiap tahun pulak tgh dalam pantang..kuih raya seme mkn sendiri. dah habis pon cuma tinggal kuih sepit je..Hehe..teruk kan?..Camna lah nak pi beraya, 2 weekend of raya kt kampung. another 2weekends pegi HOMEDEC beli barang untuk rumah baru..huhu..bizi lah konon..:p

Oh, berbalik cerita pasal Tabung Haji tu kan. Punyalah ramai umat kat situ. Another 20 person to go before my turn. But, their service was so fast. All 7 counters (kot) are open and waiting time didn't seem to be so long. Sambil tu, I did bring mine and hubby's TH Book for update. We did the auto debit on our salary for TH saving. Hubby's just started but mine already 2 years. Punyalah susah nak soh the other half buat auto deduct ni. Almost everyday I need to remind him abt it. Biasalah malas nk isik borang and jumpe HR..Menarik juga hasil dari force saving ni. Tetiba tgk duit ada byk(takde la byk mana, tapi for me byk la tuh..), walau pada hakikatnya hutang credit card bekepuk-kepuk..hiks.

TAPI..harap tidak lah

Bila dah nampak duit agak byk kt situ kan, maka mulalah rasa gatal nak keluarkan. Furthermore, we really need a big cash for the new hse. Haish..sobar..as at now, the money still there. For the new hse, nasib lah ada duit refinance rumah lelong hari tu plus bonus lakiku. And utk barang2 yg bole di 'swipe' guna CC, mmg selamat lah..Guna CC pun kena ada cara. Imagine kalau dh swipe 2-3k, takkanlah nak bayar selepuk gitu b4 the due date came. Nak biar hutang tu lama2 lagilah jgn sebab the interest is so high tak terjangkau. What I did - I applied for 0% balance transfer offered by Public Bank. To calculate, 3000/6 = 500/mth lah. Compared to 3k, baik aku bayo 500 kan. without any extra charges. At least, boleh la adjust lagi sikit2 on monthly expenses and blaa..blaa..blaa..

KALAU..

Kalaulah monthly force saving tu tak di usik, dlm 3-4 tahun, boleh lah aku pi haji..wah..dgn syarat, kos pi haji tak le naik 50% every year!!..We did registered for Haji last 2 years and our turn will be on 2021..punyalah jauh kan. Tapi takpe..Nak pegi sekarang pon mmg tak dapek lah..Anak2 kecik lagi..sian depa..

KENAPA..

One of the reason I put the money in TH ialah:-

Adakah pendeposit TH wajib membayar zakat simpanan atas wang simpanannya di TH ?
Jawapan:
Wang simpanan pendeposit-pendeposit TH disatukan dalam Kumpulan Simpanan Pendeposit-pendeposit dan dijadikan sebagai modal perniagaan. Modal perniagaan ini dilabur oleh TH dalam bidang-bidang perniagaan seperti pelaburan harta tanah, bangunan, perladangan, perusahaan dan bidang-bidang lain yang halal mengikut lunas-lunas Islam. Kumpulan Wang simpanan Pendeposit ini hanya digunakan oleh TH untuk tujuan perniagaan.

TH membayar zakat perniagaan bagi pihak pendeposit dan dengan demikian pendeposit tidak perlu lagi membayar zakat simpanan ke atas wang simpanannya di TH.

Aku pening bila orang dok argue psl ASB. And I'm nobody to komen. Still got some money in ASB + the Cert. Biarlah ia di situ..

Regards,

Suzilawati M.A a.k.a GJie

iPhone not iPad..

2010-09-25T07:44:00.012+08:00

My everdearest husband dunia akhirat (insyaAllah..Aminn..) texted me during my 1-day-Teambuilding-Course yesterday:-

Hubby : Nak apple iPad x?
Me : Mahal kan? Bape rm?

The conversation stops there.

I was thinking - did I ever mentiontioned that I need an iPad? I don't think so..I just mentioned that I want an iPhone - but not desperately want to own it - still considering. Ye lah, a lot of money need to be spent on more important things, other than melayan nafsu dgn gajet2 ni kan..

When he reached home, he handed over to me a box of iPad. Aik..? so easy to get meh?..Then, he told me that the iPad was personally given by his friend as a 'kuih raya gift' in which he was not keen to accept it but a friend of him insist (agaknye dia pon dpt free kot..hmm). Ok lah tu. But, dear Mr. friend, can you pls next time kasik iPhone pulak. No need iPhone4. iPhone 3G should be enough for me..ohh, if possible, pls bundle it with monthly installment of unlimited broadband as well..:p..:)

Anyone using it at the moment? Best ke? Boleh share ur experience? I'm too lazy to browse the net and google abt it. By the way, the iPad still in the box. Zalim tak kalau aku jual and beli iPhone hasil dari jualan itu..?..hehe..:p

Still Survive..

2010-09-02T14:14:00.002+08:00

Sudah 2 minggu pembantu rumahku bercuti. Harap dia cukup gembira dan bersedia utk pulang bila tiba masanya. Kalau tak nak balik pon, silalah beritahu awal supaya kami disni tidaklah menggelabah untuk memikirkan alternatif lain. Harap dia tidaklah terpengaruh dgn kempen 'Ganyang Malaysia'.

At the moment, the husband is taking charge of the kids at home. My turn is over. Nasiblah suamiku boleh di harap. So far, alhamdulillah kids are still in one piece..:)

Semenjak ketiadaan maid, selama itulah juga baju2 bertimbun tak berlipat. Susah gila nak carik baju sensorang. Sudahnya, aku sort je baju mengikut kepunyaan masing-masing dan longgokkan di atas katil. At least, senang lah sikit nak cari..hehe..Tunggulah bila kekuatan mental tiba utk melipat.. Nasiblah stok baju yg dah gosok cukup utk sampai cuti raya. kalau tidak, satu hal jugak tu nak menggosok baju..:p

I'm not into cooking mood this Ramadhan season. No appetite to eat when I cooked. Everyday must go to PARAM. Ada lah 2-3 hari yg tak pergi. A must buy items - Nasi Ayam + Roti Boom for Muhriz. And I can't believe it that he can fast. So far, dapat lah 10 hari puasa penuh. I didn't expected that he can puasa even sehari pon. At early ramadhan, I keep on calling his teacher just to check on him whether he still puasa? And to my surprise he did it. Well done, son. Rupa-rupanya, his kindy had promised something to whoever can puasa at school. They will be given a badge 'I love fasting' and also will be invited for Iftar this coming Friday. Patutlah..and I should be thankful to the school also for giving such an encouragement to the kids. And last week, Muhriz kata dia nak kejar Lailatul Qadar..tapi takde pulak dia suruh kejut tgh mlm utk bertahajjud..haih, solat 5 waktu pon buat kt school je..takpelah..but I still kagum when he mentioned about lalatul Qadar. Ramadhan tahun ini yg tercorot buat diriku..huhu..terawih pon ntah bape hari je dpt buat...:(..ya Allah, berilah kekuatan fizikal & mental utkku beribadat kpdMu....Aminn...:'(..

The progress..

2010-07-16T16:17:00.000+08:00

Wah..sejak boleh mengepost via email, galak pulak aku menghapdet blog..

Btw, semalam I went for site visit of our new home reno. Nak tgk ada progress or masih tang tu jugak..The contractor previously janji nak start dari 2 minggu lepas tp bile check last week, habok pon tarak!!(err..habok merate2 sebenarnyye kt umah tu..:p)..

Tapi semalam, hatiku agak berbunga tatkala melihat rumah tu dh start runtuh2 dinding..ngehehe..yes!!..at least ada progress. Harini nak pi check lagi..harap2 ada la mende lain plak begerak..kot la kan saje buat runtuh dinding tu pehtu bior idle beberapa minggu..haish depa ni mmg nak kene pantau!!..Tu la..sapa soh amik contractor yg mmg terang2 byk projek..Mmg dia ni conquer renovation area rumah kami nih..sbb kan, dia buat agak ok la and the price pon agak reasonable jugak..tu yg kami ON je..lgpon xde la nk move in cpt2..and rasanye xdelah nk pindah before raya sbb maid bercuti sakan..hmm..

Oh..si kecik ni pon ada progress jugak..:-)..kalau tgk kartun or iklan mmg x lepas mata kt TV..favorite kartun - SID the Science Kid. Tp lately ni dh xde plak kartun tu..Pihak astro, sila adakan kembali rancangan itu ye. Cik Syafi ni suka sgt tgk kartun tu sbb rambut dia pon lebih kurang mcm SID jugak!!..hik..semalam dia goyang badan bile suruh joget Stacy (pronounce by Iman as 'Steksi')..influence by Kak Ngah la ni..ni mmg terbaru punye progress!!..

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Regards,
Suzilawati M.A a.k.a GJie

Mid-Year Review

2010-07-15T15:18:00.000+08:00

Dear All,
Please provide ~~your~~s your achievements for the past 6 months by Friday 5.00pm. Thanks.

Huh..kot kalau dpt promoted / naik gaji 30% / atau yg seumpamanya, nak jugak ku perah otak & mengorek mailboxku dgn menyenaraipanjangkan menda2 yang aku dah buat. Tapi, kalau habok pon tarak..maksik x kose lah..:p

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Regards,
Suzilawati M.A a.k.a GJie

Pagi2 dah buat org hangin..

2010-07-12T11:25:00.000+08:00

This morning, I call EYONGBANK, as usual asking for home loan interest to be paid for this month. I need to do this every month since the loan has not been fully disbursed to the account. We only have to pay for progressive interest. Only when the loan is fully disburse, we do not have to call the bank coz the installment is fix..oh btw, this home loan is using the husband's name.

All the while I have no problem on getting the amount to be paid. But this morning, this so kekwat guy were refused to give me the info. He said he can't disclose the info to 3rd party. WTH?..WTF? WQW?..:p..I started to raise up my voice and told him that all the while I did the same thing and the officer in charge never failed to give me the info. Hey, I'm not taking out the money okeh, I want to pay instead!! Pelik tau. Kang if we didn't pay, u guys jugak yg akan bug us and imposed the penalty on the late charges pulak...ngongok tau..I insisted him to pass the phone to the branch manager. I want to talk to him/her..If you don't want us to pay, then foinee!!..boleh gak aku guna duit tuh buat makan nasik arab lamb kabsah utk sebulan!!..But the guy said the BM is on the phone at the moment. Cannot talk..eleh..I know - brave but chicken shit kan?..hikhik..:p

At last, agaknye tak tahan dgn bebelan super power ku, this guy akur juga dgn memberi amount yg perlu di bayar..kan senang..kot kalu kasik awal2 takdelah ahkak nak bebel pepagi bute...:p Hmmmh..lately ni mmg akak suke bebel tau.

And lepas bebel dgn dak officer EYONGBANK tu, my user pulak call. Boleh tak, dia nak cakap dgn org lain but dialled my number instead. Apa kes? Siap tanya extension nyonya tu pulak kt I..isk..memang nk kene sekeh tau..pegi la check kt address book outlook tu..lagi sorang mangsa bebelanku di pagi hari..carik nahas betul budak-budak ni..:p

p/s:This entry is a trial version of posting via email..maklumlah, kt opis tokleh akses blogspot..tp gmail dh boleh akses..yayy!!..:p..hik..

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Regards,
Suzilawati M.A a.k.a GJie

The 1st time..

2010-05-26T23:42:00.000+08:00

...I answered a tag..:)..tis one from Awie..

What will u do if u know that your friend has been back stabbing u ?

* never had tis experience or i forgot?ntah..but if it ever happen to me, i don't really care..kot?

6 people in your heart?

* syafi iman muhriz jecop mak abah..cukup la tu..:)

Do u think u're cute?

* wo bu ke'ai, wo hen piaoliang!!..haha..x paham sudah..:p

Single or taken?

* taken not for granted..hopefully..:)

Blog(s) that u like?

* fren's blog lah..

Do u clean your room everyday?

* sekali sekale .. malas..bole?

The last song u listened to?

* tujuh hali..tujuh hali..tujuh hali shemingguu..a'at, ishenin, shelashe, labu, kamis jumaat dan shabtuu..by Iman Atikah..:)

Last text message?

* the vendor

Last phone call?

* My Along bukan Ah Long ye..

Last day u cried?

* buat facial..sakit woo kene picit2 muke nk kuarkan segala white/black heads..isk..mengalir airmataku..eh tu kire nangis eh?

List down 5 of your favorite colours?

1. maroon

2. purple

3. red

4. white

5. black

6. cekelat

The last people chat with u in YM?

* can't remember..so long time already. my working environment disallow me to do that..thank God..

Your favorite game?

* not really into game..tak sempat lah. But the best game I ever play was Super Mario Bros..hehe

Are u a fan o MCR?

* MCR - what?

What do u feel when u answering this tag?

* nothing

Do u think this tag interesting?

* ok lah..at least it makes me update my blog..:)

Now, tag 10 of your frens...

everyone was tagged left me with nobody to tag..:P

so u think u can dance?or sing?

2010-05-15T22:59:00.003+08:00

Salam..:)

Tonite got nothing to do..Anak2 udah tidur..nak layan tv, bosan..nak surf pon dh xtau nk surf ape dah..Early nite, cam biase, melayan kerenah bebudak bertiga ni lah..kalau rajin, bacalah buku sikit lebih kurang or menulis ala kadar..but tonite lain pulak aktiviti kami..

If u were reading tis at ofis, and the internet connection not so good, don't try to watch the video..sure tesekat2..

But, if akses kt rumah guna streanyx or yg seangkatan, maybe ada harapan tgk video kt bawah ni..:-)..btw, please ignore the background!..

verse yg sama di ulang-ulang..sah2 kene reject any reality shows yg ade. xpelah nak..mak pon x harap!!..:p

so you think u can dance?..eh btw, sape ye yg menang eh show tu?

ntah lagu ape la mmg x penah denga. mak dulu kalau lagu nasyid di pondok kecil ke, atau lagu buta mata ke, tau lah..lagu2 baru ni mmg xtau la pulak..

Come what MAY..

2010-05-03T09:21:00.000+08:00

MAY this entry meets you in the best of Iman and Health, Insya Allah..:)

How time flies and we are already in MAY of 2010. 1st day of the month was actually our 6th wedding anniversary.Dah tengahari baru teringat, bole? Yg lagi sorang tu jgn cakap la. Mmg tak igt langsung walau di beri hint soh teke.."ingat tak hari ni hari ape?" Pehtu tu bekerut kerut trying to remember any events that can cross his mind..apparaa... I remember our wedding date, that's for sure. It's just that I can't remember that 1st MAY = Our Anniversary.. And yes, it's a labour day - it should be a holiday but when it falls on Saturday, takde maknenye..:p

Alhamdulillah, 6 years of marriage - we were blessed with 3 kids yang cumel dan mungil..:)

Oh btw, if you wish to give us some gift tanda peringatan, tak payah susah-susah, doakan kami bahagia ke akhir hayat, that should be more than enuff oredi..;)

MAY Allah bless everybody,especially YOU who reads this entry.. Have a nice Monday and I'm on leave today..yeay..so, Monday should not be so blue...;-)

Kids - When they were 6 months old..

Home Renovation..Interior Designer wanted!!

2010-04-23T02:27:00.000+08:00

We got key to our new house already. Yup it's below schedule and we are not really happy about it. Not ready to move in lah. Anyhow, we still have to - a.s.a.p. If not, both installment rumah baru & sewa rumah kene bayau..no good. Before we can move, of course a lot of things need to be done. The house need to be renovate and of course, survey on bla..bla..bla have to take place..i so hate. Btw, for a start, we got some opinion from close people around..hehe..so inspiring shd i say that..and also bought few books on I.D at MPH..gilo kontang..the book not so cheap and we just close one eye lah..futhermore got pelepasan cukai walau tak le byk mana pon bole lepas..huk..

The other half has been appointed as the Project Manager for this project, whether he like it or not. Project Timeline still not submitted eventho I did remind him again and again. Shd I fire him and just let me take his position?..Will see within these few weeks. If no progress, YOU ARE FIRED!!..:p..hehe..I know u wouldn't read tis, darl..

Any Interior Designers Mampu 'Bayar' around here? Tell me if u know somebody eh. We got a lots of things to do with so limited budget. haha..I think everybody is like that lor..

Time to sleep. Got only 4 hours left until Syafi wake up at 6am!!..Happy weekend y all..:)

23

2010-01-11T00:25:00.003+08:00

It's been a while since the last time I blog. Although nobody complain, but I think I shouldn't left this blog idle forever. Or else, just delete it but why did I create it at the first place?!!..hehe..saje marah kat diri sendiri..nothing to do with u..:p

I hope it is not too late to wish you a happy new year for both hijrah and masihi. Cita2 tahun lepas tercapai? As for me, I don't have any specific wish for last year. Malas nak pk.. and the sweetest things of all happen last year not other than the arrival of Syafi Zahirah to our family..Bertambah rezeki, alhamdulillah..

Syafi @3months++

Ok..What is it with 23? I like this number maybe my birthday is on 23rd (but according to mak, it was on 20th instead, abah lambat daftar sbb time tu banjir..bole?..) but I'm used to 23rd even when I was younger, I like to read Gemini instead of Taurus on horoscope - dulu, sekarang dah tak kuasa nak baca ramalan bintang..and my kids lahir on what bintang? Entah..tau Syafi je on Libra tuh pon sbb sama dgn Cho!!..ahaks..

Yesterday, we went for our new home site visit and got to know that the number is 23. When I saw the number, I just smiled and started to relate it with a lot of things!!..:-
1) My birthday on IC - 23.5
2) Abah's birthday - 23.12
3) Muhriz - 23.6
4) Hubby's birthday - 22.3 - eh 2.3, kire bole la kan?..hehe..nak jugak..
5) My lil bro's bday (yg x brape little) - 23.2
6) My big bro's bday on IC - 23.3
7) This year our age (I mean me & hubby) is 32 - sile buat pembalikan palindrom!!..:p
8) This year Muhriz is 2+3
9) This year Iman is 3+2-2 - hehe nak jugak!!
10) This year Syafi is 3-2

Okeh..I leave u now with a number in ur head..so, what's ur number?..;)

Tu lah rumah kami (nampak tak muncung mulutku ini..?)

Berat hatiku ini..

2009-11-21T00:04:00.003+08:00

I've told you, how time flies. It's about time to get back to work and left the kids 9 to 6 (or is it 7,8..oh no!!). Iman will shout and totally disagree whenever I told her that I'm going to work and left her with bibik. Kesian dia. And the most kesian is Baby Syafi lah..I don't know whether or not the bibik can cope with the 3 kids around. I've told her not to worry so much about the cooking or chores or her kebun. Priority should be for the kids lah kan. Will see how it goes. If she really can't cope, I need to think about something else. How I wish the company can provide a nursery here at my workplace, so that I can breastfeed the baby easily and checking on them during lunch hour..how nice. bilalah nak jadik kenyataan?

School break is here. Means, Iman & Muhriz will start fight as early as the day began. Gamatlah rumahku dgn suara budak2 ni bergaduh & bibik menjerit. Aduhh..camana nak buat?. If possible, I want to bring Muhriz or Iman or both along to the office. Ada tak Play School ke or anything similar during school break ni somewhere in bangi/kajang/putrajaya eh?..Let me know kalau ada.

Tomorrow will be 'Ihtifal & Graduation Day' for Muhriz held at USIM (btw, Ihtifal tu ape ek? Aku google pon x jumpa makna dia ape..hehe). Tak sabar nak tgk Muhriz berlakon walaupon hanya berlakon sbg sebatang pokok!!..:p

Ooops..I did it again!!

2009-11-18T21:20:00.003+08:00

Entah apa la nak jadi dengan aku. "Kealpaan" yang terjadi tahun lepas tidak langsung dijadikan pengajaran. Blame it on him!!..Huhh..Tapi tu lah..kalau dah RM100 tuh bukan rezeki kami, nak buat macamana..Menangis airmata darah sekalipun, tidak boleh nak mengubah apa yang dah terjadi..Kun fayakun..

Tahun lepas, kami didenda RM100 sbb lambat sehari renew the maid's permit. Itulah padahnya kalau suka buat kerja last minute. Padahal 2-3 kali jugak ku belek2 passport dia nak make sure yang due date tu tak terlepas..tup2 bila pegi imigresen, baru lah perasan yang permitnya udah mati the previous day..Konon buat sendiri sbb nk save - ye lah, kalau agent yg buat, dia charge -+ RM100 gak la..ye, RM100 tu bukan rezeki kami NOR the agent. Sila terima kenyataan itu.

Tahun ini dan pada hari ini, baru aku perasan permit (bukan pasport ya) dh expired on 10NOV09. Hampes!!. I've concentrating on the passport expiry terlupa yg permit tu x sama date expiry dgn passport. Mmg berkali-kali juga ku check passport tu untuk mengelakkan dari terjadi perkara yg sama dan bila lakiku tanya arituh, aku dah sebut jugak expired 10NOV. Tp kenapa still ingatkan 20+ NOV baru mati? Aduhhh..bengangla jugak sbb sudah berkali-kali remind the other half tp dia asik suruh 'ingatkan nanti'...ye lah, aku kan ke cuti branak konon harap dia la utk handle..Sesia je lah aku dok follow up on the FOMEMA result since Monday. Konon nak settlekan before naik kerja. Nampaknya, another RM100 kan kuberi pada pihak imigresen lg la nampaknya..Redho je lah..

Cik abangku sayang, lain kali don't rely on me alone to check those dates on the passport. I know u trust me sooo much and believe in my capability to handle those things. But dear, now I'm still alive boleh la nak buat itu dan ini . Nanti bila saya dah takda, macamana?..Huh..Yes, I know u won't read tis pon, so no point of talking to u here..:p

Lesson learnt for today:-

1. Passport Expiry Date NOT EQUAL to Visa/Permit Expiry Date
2. Jgn buat kerja sorang2. Sila harapkan pihak yang satu lagi juga. Double checking tu penting. We are only human. Human make mistakes. So, we make mistakes lor.
3. Buat reminder. Handphone beli mahal2 tu buat apa kalau tak utilize?
4. Walau macamana kita nak elak sesuatu tu daripada terjadi, kalau nak jadi tu, jadik la jugak.

Dah..babyku dah nanges..dan lakiku dah bising!!..:P

Rewards or Punishment?

2009-11-05T20:43:00.009+08:00

When I was in MCB 13 years back (hah..lama tuh..maknanye?), I took (no, I have to take..no choice bebeh..) a psychology subject. I enjoyed learning but not as much as I enjoyed learning Add Maths during the secondary school.:p. The subject is different from others that we learnt at earlier schools. I hate reading but this subject require me to do so besides an analytical thinking. Analyzing and applying each and every approach they have in Psychology also requires good writing skill which I found it a bit lack in me!!....Btw,I so hate Sigmund Freud..:p

My room mate influenced me a lot in this Psychology subject..haha..yes, I have to admit that she's so good at it..I remember when we went to the National Library, a must-go section will be a Psychology section..It's quite an effort to go there. Jalan kaki sepanjang Jln Bukit Changgang menuju ke simpang jalan besar --> Ambil bas ke KL Bus Stand Klang (padehal bukannye kt Klang pon..x paham apesal nama dia gini) --> Jln kaki pi Bangkok Bank tunggu bas ketot ke arah Jln Raja Laut --> Berenti kt Jln ape ntah aku pon tak igt --> Jalan kaki pi National Library., barulah sampai...berpeluh la jugak..ohh kenangan lalu mengusik jiwa..!!

Now, I wish that I could take the subject again, and apply it in my everyday life especially when it comes to deal with the kids.Yes, the kids really drives me crazy with their 'good' behaviour recently. Contohnya:-
1. Suka bergaduh. Tak sah kalau sehari tak gaduh. And yg selalu kalah sure lah Muhriz!!.
2. Taknak makan nasi - Iman le ni..Tp kalau gula2 mmg pantang nampak. Yg org buang pon sanggup dikutip. You can see her glittering eyes if she got some..she will be smiling ear to ear sampai gegula abes..!!
3. Tgk kartun 24 hours - Nih Iman jugak. Org lain dh tak boleh nak tgk cerita lain asik Channel 611 je lah. oo lupe..kalu cite hantu baru la boleh alih channel lain without any argument.
4. Suka kacau baby - Aku dh sound pon masih lagi nak cocok2 mate la idung la mulut la..diorg igt barbie doll ke ape agaknya..Aku rase suara aku je la yg berkumandang sepanjang waktu berpantang di rumah ni..

dan lain-lain lagi..

So, how to handle them using the psychology approach which I've learnt 13 years back?..Seriously, I can't recall so much about the theories. Ye lah..dulu2 belajar untuk pass exam je..bukannya nak apply dalam kehidupan seharian..kalau aku apply dalam kehidupan seharian semasa di kolej, sure aku score subject ni gila2..!!..:p

I read some articles about Rewards and Punishment here. I quoted some as below:-

Many a child developmental professional will advise parents to try to ignore children's bad behavior and reward their good behavior. As most parent's know, this is sometimes easier said than done. After all, bad behavior can be so irritating that it is difficult not to respond to, that is, to ignore. It takes real discipline

Isk mane boleh ignore..kang jadik habit, lagi la susah..lgpon rase geram mcm tak tertanggung..:p

Some parents might object to ignoring bad behavior because they see it, understandably perhaps, as their responsibility to correct the child's misbehavior. Ignoring it may seem like tolerating if not rewarding it and thus failing to do one's duty as a parent.

Ya betull..!!

Despite how reasonable this sounds, it turns out that most experts, including of the Super Nanny variety, are correct. Rewards are more effective than punishment. and blaa..blaa..sile ketik kalau nak tau lebih lanjut..

I just did a so-called Rewards thingy to Iman just now..I told her that she will get sebijik MENTOS if she eat rice today. And yes, dia dah pon makan nasik tengahari ni. Tp MENTOS dh diberi dulu before she ate the nasik?..aci tak?

Rasanya mmg lebih byk PUNISHMENT drp REWARDS yg aku dok apply selama ni. Kalau asik bergaduh and xnak berenti, aku hambek je rotan..tp xde la libas kasi berbirat..rotan manja gitu..hehe.. but still bergaduh jugak at any other time yg diorg suke..

Tp takkan la asyik nak kasik mentos je or reward2 lain if they behave accordingly. Tak ke menggalakkan rasuah namanya, and it is not good lah.macam conditional love gitu..hmm..merapek?

I guess I need more reading and some patience..tp masalahnya aku tak suka membaca walau dulu bila tulis biodata - Kegemaran : Membaca..huh..ape kes?..:p

Whatever anyhow - I love my kids very much..I can't imagine life without them and I'm not sure whether they can if it's without me. Quit my job and be with them most of the time is something I 'm thinking of. Yes, they might be mischievous ones but who cares?..Ntah bila la boleh berenti kerja without affecting my current salary eh? Money is not everything but everything needs money, so how lei?

She is soo notty but I love her unconditionally..same goes to the other 2..

10 things on my mind

2009-10-27T16:06:00.002+08:00

1. I have another 10 days to complete my 'pantang mode'..yippie!!

2. Already got the Spectra 3 from SIL next door, but yet to start 'pumping' session. Malasnya..

3. I want to make some revision abt 'Breastfeeding for working mom'. Tp asik je melencong ke site lain..Anybody have the straight to the point link?

4. The process to completely own the auction hse I got last time still in progress and don't know until when. So, we decided to rent out our apartment instead of getting a buyer. At least, dpt la duit kocek sket..kan..kan..

5. I need to identify which credit card is the best to remain and terminate others. Ye lah, kang tak pepasal kene bayar unnecessary tax pulak next year. In case u don't know, starting next year, all principal card will be impose rm50 tax, supplementary rm25. Imagine if u have 10 cards ( yes, I hv 10 cards). Kira la sendiri ye berapa makcik kene bayar. Bukannya pakai semua pon cuma buat standby je..

6. Which bank offer the best rate for refinancing? I'm quite frustrated with most of the bankers when I asked them abt the product. Tuh yang aku rase mcm nak tuka profession je nih..

7. I need to do some serch on 2 auction flat nearby. Hoping to get another for the +ve income..;-)

8. Budak 2 org ni bising sgt..Kesian bb Syafi x dpt tido and me terganggu nak online. Mak yg hampeh?..I guess soo..yet ada hati nak jadi fulltime housewife..bole jalan daa..:p

9. Seronoknya si bibik nih tgk Sekar..nasib baik aku x antu TV. Kalau tak sure dia merana x dpt tgk ( ke aku yg merana.?)..Untung betul org2 Indon kat sini. TV kita mmg meriah dgn cerita diorang je..dari stesen berbayar smp yg x berbayar..semua ada.x paham betul aku.

10. Sat lagi nak masak asam pedas - encik laki nak balik dari outstesen from Bintulu..:)..dah lama x masak..nasib le kalu x sedap..alamak bendi pulak xde..belasah je la..

Make It Happen - Reunion exSMSJ 91-95

2009-10-14T11:04:00.013+08:00

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15 hari berlalu..

2009-10-09T10:01:00.002+08:00

Sekejap je dah 15 hari berpantang. Tak sempat nk kejam dan celik semula!!(itu cuma perumpamaan yg menunjukkan punye la cpt ms berlalu..oke). Berpantang kali ke-3 ni agak santai(setakat ni..jgn lepaih ni terus harubiru..udah le). Mungkin sbb dh ada experience, bak kate omputih - Alah bisa tegal biasa OR bahasa Jawa Miami nye - Practise makes perfect!!!..Mungkin juga sbb berpantang di rumah sendiri..Mungkin juga sbb baby yg x byk ragamnya..and beberapa kemungkinan lain...Harap-harap panas hingga ke petang - jgn lah hujan di tengahari pulak..

Dalam pada tu, saya mmg tak sabar-sabar nak menunggu hari ke-44 (btw, for the previous confinemant, saya cuma amik 40 hari saje..konon2 tak tau..hehe). Tak sabar nak ke sana kemari 'menyetelkan' beberapa perkara yg tak mampu di settlekan ketika waktu bekerja..

Alhamdulillah, baby Syafi is very well-behave. Tak byk kerenahnya. Cuma kalu dia lapar and ada 'sesuatu' di dypersnye - baru la dia merengek. Tak pon bila Kak Ngah & Abg Long kacau..Kalau berjaga pon mata dia terkebil-kebil tgk kipas or melilau ke sana ke mari. Talking abt Abg Long & Kak Ngah - mmg nampak diorang ni sayang sgt kat baby Syafi. Main sekejap lepas tu mesti nak pi kat baby and cium pipi. Tp Kak Ngah ni extra sket..dia suke cucok pipi and mata baby. Tadi baru je kene rotan kat tangan dengan ayah sebab cubit pipi baby - tu yang tak boleh lepa sikit..bahaya kalau di biarkan..

Pembantu rumahku juga boleh la di harap. Setiap pagi, dia akan buatkan minuman telor ayam kampung, masakkan makanan berpantangku, dan mandikan baby. Tak taulah memang dia rasa itu tanggungjawab dia or sebab saya telah menjanjikan bayaran extra sikit untuk bulan ini. Takpelah, baik saya berfikiran positif sahaja. Walaupon dia ni agak outspoken, saya masih boleh bertahan lagi. Lagipon, dia juga terpaksa kansel untuk balik beraya ke kg halamannya tahun ni di sebabkan saya yg bersalin pada hari raya. Mula-mula, saya tak kisah pon bila dia berkeras nak juga balik beraya - walaupun saya berharap sgt dia batalkan niat sucimurni dia tu. Atas perikemanusiaan dan nasihat maknya (katanya lah..), akhirnya dia bersetuju utk kansel cuti raya dia tu. Sempat pula dia bercerita dgn jiran belakang rumah - dia mengambikira kebaikan dan perikemanusiaan saya selama ni. Memang dari awal dia kata, dia 'betah' bekerja dgn saya. Memang saya tak byk meminta walaupon kadang2 ada juga benda yg tidak memuaskan hati. Paling tak tahan kalau dia asyik nak compare gaji, compare job scope kerja pembantu rumah vs kerja kedai..etc. Saya dengar je..malas nak argue tak tentu pasal. Buat naik kan darah je buat apa. Takda faedahnya pon. Tak taulah sama ada dia berniat untuk sambung kontrak OR tamatkan sahaja pada bulan 2 tahun depan. Malas nak tanya sekarang. Bulan 12 kang baru tanya dia betul-betul. Dan rasanya, kalau pon dia nak sambung, sure dia demand naik gaji lagi. Kemungkinan kenaikan 20% dia akan minta (based on HINT yg pernah di beri)..haha..saya pon tak dapat kenaikan gaji sebanyak tu. 10% pon tak sampai..eh..5% pon tak sampai tau..

Tengok lah macamana nanti...

It's quite a story..

2009-10-05T13:02:00.011+08:00

This entry is purposely to share my experience delivering our 3rd edition. Enjoy!!

The contraction
I started to felt the contraction at 4.30a.m the same day. It was only a mild contraction and happen every 8 minutes constantly. 2 days before was only 'Braxton Hicks' but I believe tis time would be the real one. I still can bear with it. After Subuh prayer, I told my husband and asked him to get ready to the hospital. The contraction getting more painful and cause me to stop talking whenever it came.Need to apply the breathing technique as well. My MIL was around and she decided to follow us.

At the Hospital
We went straight to the labor room. The midwife check the necessary. The baby's heartbeat is OK and the cervix already 3-4 cm dilated. The doctor decided to break the water as it will help to speed the process. I asked the midwife, why I can't felt the water break?. Rupanya air ketuban dh tinggal sikit. Bahaya tuh..

It hurts
God knows how..Suddenly, I can recall the pain I felt when I delivered Muhriz & Iman..before ni x terpk pulak nak recall dulu sakit tuh. And the husband budget I will deliver the baby at night. Chait ade ke patut?. Dah le sakit banget,buleh dia budget malam baru besalin..I asked the midwife do they provide an etonox gas to ease the pain. I had that for the previous two. But unfortunately, they do not have that here. They only provide an injection. So, I asked for an injection. Tp, sakit jugak..huhuhu..

Push
When the cervix 7cm dilated, I hv the urge to push the baby out but the midwife asked me to hold. It so hard to do that. I believe most of u has experienced this. She asked me to hold until 15 minutes. Then, the doctor came. As expected, the gynae who were supposed to attend me was on RAYA leave at Terengganu. But, this gynae who was on call mode is not bad at all. She is so soft spoken and muka ala2 arab. Sejuk mata memandang. When the contraction is at the peak and fully dilated, they asked me to push the bb out. I did it the wrong way and the husband told me it's gonna be another vacum bb again. Sigh..but actually, NO. There were few nurses around and they were just like a POM2 girl(cuma xde pom2 jer..). Later I was told by them that I'm the only one in the labor room and the wards were empty. Only 1 person delivered the baby early that morning at 5 a.m. So, most of them can join me and share the pain I have to face.The midwife taught me how to push the baby correctly. After 6-7 attempt, I managed to push her out without using the vacum(unlike the previous 2)and the gynae greet the baby with ' Assalamualaikum'..:-)

No Pain No Gain
Suddenly all the pain gone. I got 4 stiches but it didn't hurt at all. Thanks to the contraction pain I experienced before..hehe. Syafi Zahirah bt Saifulbahri born on 24.09.2009 @11.49 a.m. and was 3 days overdue. Alhamdulillah, everything went so smooth..I have a strong believe that this process of delivery is quite easier berkat doa semua. Thanks to those yg mendoakan..:-).

The price I had to pay was only not being able to beraya sakan this year(besides berpantang ala2 koboi). No big deal and I felt it is so berbaloi-baloi..:-). Alhamdulillah.

To those yg akan bersalin and plan untuk bersalin next, do not worry. InsyaAllah, sakit bersalin tu penghapus dosa (tu yg lakiku dok ulang2 time aku sakit yg amat kt labor room tu). The moment you saw the baby, semua sakit tuh terus hilang sekelip mate..

Syawal 1430 - Out of our norm

2009-09-20T13:40:00.004+08:00

I'm still on standby mode. The baby still comfortably sitting in the womb. She decided to celebrate raya in my tummy. It's ok, dear. Tell me earlier if you want to come out. So, I can set myself mentally and physically more...:-). The doctor did not encourage for induce since it's only 1cm dilated(based on last Wednesday check-up). Tunggu je la..

So, here we are on the 1st Syawal, celebrating Syawal with only us. I don't mind as long as my precious ones are with me. Kesian kt bebudak je la..especially Muhriz asik tanye..-bile kita nk pegi rumah tok abah?, bile nak blk kampung? saya nak pegi beraya..sian dia..huhu..

A day before raye, I managed to prepare some raya dishes for ourselves such as nasi impit, kuah kacang, ayam masak merah, triffle without swiss roll, sayur lodeh (bibik masak), rendang (outsource to my bro MIL..initially I supposed to pay the cost but end up it's FOC..thanks ye makcik, really appreciate it..)..sumenya sedap belaka..dapat la jugak merasa juadah raya tahun ni..ngehehe..

The raya nite, we went to PKNS Complex. I need to grab a baju raya for me since I didn't bought any for myself. Ingatkan dh beranak dulu b4 raya..hehe..I got a baju cost only rm40..ok la tuh..buat begambar je..bukan nye ke mana pon..!!.

Walaupun x blk kampung, dapat juga tgk muka org2 di kampung. Thanks to the webcam technology..:-)..terase mcm kami berada di london pulak siap ber webcam bagai..

So, this raya eve:-
1) We did not blk kampung as usual
2) No raya visit to anywhere as at 1.48pm
3) Nobody beraya with us as at 1.48pm.
4) I cooked most of the raya dishes!!..tis one is really out of norm!!

Selamat Hari Raya to all my dear friends.. Minta Maaf Zahir batin and sorry for all my wrongdoings..direct or indirectly.

Salam Sayang dari kami gg,saiful,muhriz,iman..and the baby in the tummy!!..

Final Check Up and Raya preparation

2009-09-10T14:52:00.009+08:00

Tadi pi check up (hopefully ni last check up before deliver..). I took a day leave but it turns out to be an MC. Doktor dh offer..terima je la kan..This is the 1st time I took MC since I'm pregnant. Sy mmg x suka meminta2 MC and alhamdulillah sepanjang pregnancy ni pon, I still can work as usual - cuma lately ni asik la loye lps gosok gigi..isk..x best betol la...

So, based on the check up, I'm at 38 weeks. Dh boleh la kalu nak bersalin. I really hope the baby agrees untuk kuar awal dari EDD - which is supposed to be on the 2nd raya (210909). Tp kalu dpt besalin 20092009 pon best gak..cantik kan date tuh?..tp tu ler, kalu aku dok Shah Alam, mungkin la bole bersalin ikut bebila bb nak kuar sbb doktor ramai and nurse pon ramai nak layan. Kt spital sini, awal2 doktor dh sound, time raya mmg x cukup staff. So advisable bersalin awal dari EDD. Next Rabu malam, pi check bukaan, and kalu agak2 mcm xde tande2 nk bersalin,induce le jawabnye. Oh baby ku, keluarla awal ye..x yah induce2 neh..

Raya preparation for this year ala kad saje. Baru bli baju Muhriz and Ayahnye - tu pon baru je pi tadi sementara tunggu turn kt Annur tadi (giler lama turn smp boleh ke TESCO Kajang bli baju raya..hehe). Baju Iman and bibik, nanti la..xtau bila plak nk pi..tgk la weekend ni ke. As for me, xyah la kot. Pakai je baju yg Along kasik ari tuh..lagipon raya tahun ni tak kemana-mane pon. Baju yg bli kt Awie arituh pon tak hanto pi tailor pon..Lepas besalin kang baru le buat...tak tau saiz badan nih menurun ke menaik lps besalin nanti..

Langsir dh diganti se awal 1 ramadhan..hehe..tp langsir basic je pi beli kt Nilai 3. Siap jahit sekali. Disebabkan kaler lebih kurang dgn yg existing langsir, kurang la nampak serinya..lantak la..buat syarat je langsir tuh..Nnti kalu dh pindah rumah baru - kene gak buat langsir lain..membazir je kang..

Kuih raye yg di beli last week tinggal se balang jer. Ada order 6 balang tp blom dapat lagi. Nxt week kene la follow up..x kang, kene la berjimat-jimat dgn kuih raya se balang tuh..ngehehe..Bekas kuih raya pon nak kene carik kt STOR tuh..sure hubby malas giler nak cari and end up mmg x berhidang la kuih raye tuh nanti..

Will continue writing after bersalin..insyaAllah...;-)..Salam Ramadhan and Syawal (advance la pulak)..mintak maaf zahir batin and doakan proses bersalin ku di permudahkan and semuanya baik2 saje..Aminnnnnn..sesapa yg ke selatan tuh, otw balik raya tu singgah le rumah kami yg beraye di perantauan ni..huhuhu..

ps:Oh..anak daraku sekarang dah pandai nak berposing..enjoy the pics..;-)

Worried Sick...

2009-07-18T10:28:00.006+08:00

Went for 7 months check up last Thursday. This is the 1st time the other half ikut & bwk skali Iman & Muhriz. We took 1 day leave..

The scan result shows not a very good sign. The baby is in a breach position (songsang) la pulak.. I've never experienced this during the 1st 2 kids. According to the doctor, it's only 30 wks, and I don't have to worry so much since there are still a lot of spaces in the womb for the baby to turn back to the correct position..1 tip she gave me..cuba sujud lama2 coz the baby don't like the position and will try turn around to make themselves comfortable. I guess, I need to do a lots of Solat Tahajjud and took longer time while Sujud..Mungkin aku kurang sujud..I took it as Allah's sign to make me a better Muslim... Hopefully, next visit, it's OK oredi..

But still, I'm worried sick. Mintak di jauhkan benda2 yg tak elok jadi to me and the baby. Nauzubillah hi minzalik.. Serioulsy, I can't describe the feeling I have at the moment...

2009-07-10T19:22:00.005+08:00

MS. READ, ARIANI & The AMEX Gold Card

Mega Sale is here again. xde la galak sgt nk bershopping tp ntah kenape, suddenly I felt like to spent for myself without calculating..bole? Maybe because of the AMEX Gold Card which I just got it last 2 days. hehe..ntah nih CC yg ke brape aku ade..(no worries, yg lelain tu I did not utilize pon..ade la sket2 je..). The beauty of this card are, No annual fee for life without any conditions, Interest Free until December 2009 and Interest only 9% p.a starting Jan 2010 - but I'll make sure I did not have to pay for the interest..riba' tuh..ngehehhe. Nampaknya, lepas nih, memane kedai yg ade logo AMEX, akan di prioriti kan..hohoho..I got 2 blouses at Ms Read and 2 tudongs at ARIANI..smp jugak hajat bli tudng kt kedai mahal nih. If beli kt pasar malam, mau 14 lai aku dpt gaknye.

Ni le barang yg aku beli harini..ngehehe

Buzy Banget

I've been very busy lately. In fact, mlm ni kene dtg kol 1 pagi sbb ade system migration for the application I support. Beginilah nasib bekerja di bidang IT..what to do. Pasrah sebenarnya. Patutnya plan nak balik BP amik buah pulasan. Sok la baru begerak nampaknye. The hubby pon standby jugak rasanye mlm ni kt opis..adoi la nampaknya bibik kene tido kt depan dgn bebudak la harini..nasib baik ada bibik, if not tepaksa la kami hangkut bebudak ni sorg satu kt opis..nasib la..Ari senin nak MC la...

The Kids

Muhriz report card not soo good. A lot of comment stated he is too dependant and need more attention. I don't want to think abt it too much since he is only 4 yrs old. Tgk next sem cemana. Lately, asyik recite a lot of surah yg kengkadang I heard it right, but most of time seme Surah dh jumble up. And suddenly berzikir pulak!!..bagus jugak at least he reminds us to do the same...;-) And Iman, makin ganas sekarang. Everyday will pow and bug me to kedai before I went off to work. Ntah bila she will stop the habit. Dgn abg long asyik je nk begaduh. Isk..isk..cemane nk buat?..

Me and kids berposing @myworkplace

In the womb

The lil one in my womb start to kicking me regularly. I like it when she did it (yes, the doctor said, insyaAllah will be another girl). It's nearly 7 months and most of the people in the office just realize I'm pregnant!!. Best jugak rasanye..Now, I can't walk as fast as before. Kene jln slow2..At night, I will easily got the 'simpul biawak' kt kaki. God knows how pain..huhu..I'm supposed to deliver on the 2nd raya, but I hope it will be earlier. Or shd I induce? Next visit, need to ask the doctor's opinion la. dah la the gynae nk balik Ganu this raya..dilemma aku dibuatnya..nak bersalin kt Johor, x biasa la pulak. Nak booking gynae mana pulak etc..? waduh pening makcik nk pk..tolon pk kan bole?..

Berbaloikah?..

2009-05-21T02:09:00.006+08:00

19May09.

I was on leave. Few things need to be done. Out for check - up at abt 9.30 a.m. Angkut Iman skali. I tot the queue is bearable but I was wrong. Another 10 persons to go..bole?..Iman dah start bosan selepas beberapa minit. Ok then, out we go to the next agenda - withdraw some cash at CIMPENG then Manjaku Baby Centre for the kids susu. Then, I called the clinic and asked the nurse - estimated time until my turn?. owh..she said it's abt an hour to go..takpelah, next agenda - went to ARHETBIPENG to prepare a Bank Draft amounted 6.3K. I missed my turn when we reach the clinic. No worries, I just wait for a few minutes until they called me. xde hal punye..:-)

Berbaloikan..I missed my turn only a few minutes but seme mende settle..puas hatiku for the morning session..

I need to sent Iman home since few more things are still pending. It was abt 12 noon and I just reach the Putra Mahkota toll. Next destination -- The Weld, JRC. The parking still sucks here. Tried my luck at the basement but so bad there was no more parking left for me. kalau bwk kancil buleh je nk menyelit. No choice need to park in between of Bangunan Affin (oh, my ex-workplace..!!) and The Weld. And guess what, penjaga parking ni still recognise me after almost 2 years x jumpe. I tot he will say 'Mana pigi lama tada nampak?' instead of 'Kereta suda tukar ka?'..hehe..btw, ade ke parking kt sini?All the cars looks static here and no sign of anyone to go out.I had no choice but to block few cars and left the key with the penjaga parking. How come I trust him? Well, tawakkal je la..malas nk pk dah. Met my 'JV partner x jadi' there..hehe..I got ole2 from her, which she bought at Bandung. I tot of belanja her for the lunch but she refused. Aku dh agak dah..Instead, dia pulak yg pay for the lunch. A birthday treat she said..:-)..

Berbaloikan..I put the risk by giving the my car key at penjaga parking, then tawaf 2 bangunan cari parking pehtu dpt ole2 sambil dpt lunch treat!!..hehe..Alhamdulillah rezeki Allah..btw, thanks my dear friend..

I need to reach Jln Riong, Bangsar before 3p.m and now it's already 2.05p.m. Hopefully no accident anywhere along the way. It's 2.30pm when I found the place. Yes, the same problem - No Parking. Only 2 Illegal Parking left and I had no choice. Just parked the car there, and I did noticed all the cars nearby got the surat saman terselit kt wiper keta masing2. Time kene saman abt 12.50pm. I guess the DBKL already went to another place. Harap2 they will left the place 4ever for the day. hehe.

Headed to the Balai Berita to register myself as a bidder for an auction property. I tot I was the only bidder for the unit but I was totally wrong!!..before me, there were already 3 bidders registerd for the same property!..hampeh.com. This is the 4th time, but it looks like no sign of winning again...:-( At abt 3, the auction began. As advised by a friend, jgn angkat the paddle awal2. Let them bid 1st. 3 bidders start to take the price. Each time increase by 2K!!..gilo!!..Suddenly the auctioneer called my name..eh, apesal pulak la auctioneer ni x pepasal sebut nama aku!!..I raise the paddle and bid for 71k. Another bidder raise and suddenly I felt like i don't want to lose tis time. Guess what? The hammer price is 77K, and that's my bid..I won!!..I won!!(now the questions of my FB status answered..hehe!!) I can't described the satisfaction of winning an auction!!..seriously. On the way out of the auction room, a pakcik was abt to enter the auction room and he was actually wanted to bid the same property!!..He was so frustrated as the unit was sold at 77k, while his budget is 80K!!..Rupanya dia tak jumpa parking!!..x pelah..dia pon dh byk property pon. kasi chan kt sy yang baru nak mula...oh btw, dari jauh I saw a piece of paper melambai2 di celah wiper keretaku!!..as expected!!

Berbaloikan..kene saman RM100, but I won at 77k for the property worth 110k!!..iye..I hope it's worth it...we will see...:-)

Btw, I bring along a box of strawberry from Cameron Highland and plan to give it to one of my bff after all the task done..knowing the weather nowadays, strawberry seme dh lembik and I'm not sure whether any of the strawberry can be eaten or at least buat juice. yuhu..bole makan ke?..

Hehe..sempat gak aku berposing!!..

3 months plus..

2009-03-22T20:17:00.004+08:00

..since the last time I update tis blog. I'm not in the mood to surf and glued the net like before. May be it was due to the ban of few most visited sites at office. Ada ke patut block gmail, blogspot, facebook mmg toksah ckp le mmg sejak azali dh block..Mmg HAMPEH. The +ve side of this - I'm more focus at work. hehe..and lately mmg byk kerja pon. I like.!!.xde la tepu pale otak aku pk ape nak buat untuk menghabiskan masa di opis..huhu..

Oh..today is hubby's birthday. Selamat Hari Jadi perwiraku..hahaha..nothing special for today. Haritu dh belikan shirt as a present, so cukup la kan..I know u don't like the party, and expensive gift sbb duitmu duitku jua dan sebaliknye..tadi petang dah buatkan donut yg sgt sedap walaupon sebenanye Muhriz yg beria nak..ngehehe..nanti lah, if my cooking mood datang, I'll cook any recipes yg ade dlm buku RESIPI BONDA tu eh..

Ohh..btw, our plan trip to Cameron Highland last week postponed due to MIL admitted to the hospital. Hasrat untuk memetik stroberi tak kesampaian nampak gayenya. Sgt kejam if we proceed with the plan. I was not really disappointed sbb masa tu pon asik ujan je.. nantilah, if ada kesempatan we booked the date. nasib baik the voucher valid until May 09. If not, rugi juge..Kalau x sempat gak nk pi, tepaksa sedekah je la voucher tu kt sesape..tp tokleh pi weekends and Public Holiday. kene cuti lor..kalau anak x skolah betul lagi, buleh la..:-)

We still searching for a house. SIME UEP punya promo looks tempting tapi harga rumah mahal gile..!!..Mmg lah the all those up front fee waived + 10k rebate + the interest BLR - 2.3, Dp 3k + 12 months installment. tapi harga nya - mak datok..BLR tgh rendah ok lah..kalau dah naik kang tak ke tekangkang gak nak membayau installment. hmm..that's why, if nak amik homeloan skang nih, try to take islamic package. Selain daripada menepati hukum syarak, at least dia ada capped BLR. slamat sket. The other half mcm minat gila nak bli kat Bukit Raja. It's so far from my office, okeh!!..I'm still like it here. Macam dh syok je dok sini.

Time's up..get ready to watch MERLIN plak..my new addiction..;-)

The Uniform & The Photo Shoot

2009-01-13T07:11:00.003+08:00

Not much to write. Just want to share Muhriz's uniform (just got it last Friday. ) and some photo shot taken by my SIL....

I'm rushing to sent Muhriz to school.

Tata for now..

The New PreSchool is AlFatih

2009-01-07T13:08:00.008+08:00

Me : Kat school Teacher ajar apa?
Muhriz : Teacher ajar solat. Tadi kan Muhriz tanak stemap (Stand Up, I supposed..hehe).

So far, seems like he is okay with the new school. On the first day dah pandai nk ngorat awek kt seblah (bottom left pix) dgn bertanya 'Eh, ni spongebob eh?', sambil menunjukkan sticker spongebob kt awek tu. Harap2, he is just being 'peramah' or trying to make friends. Risau aku.

Ooh, btw, he has yet to receive the school uniform. Mak nye yang tak saba nak tgk!!..ngehehe

Beginning of 2009

2009-01-02T09:41:00.003+08:00

Pembuka tirai 2009 - we went to Al-Fatih Integrated Preschool for Muhriz's registration. He is not so excited when we tell him that he will start the school session very soon. Harap2 when the 1st day come, he will able to accept the fact. I'll take half day leave sbb mintak sehari x dapat pasl seme org sebok nk nganto anak2 masing. These days mmg kalu anak sekolah, makbapak kene cuti seminggu. Nothing wrong with that and hopefully anak2 will appreciate that by being a very good khalifah, at least..:-). Apart of the registration, ada juga diselitkan bengkel keibu bapaan by Khalifah Institute rep which I found it very interestting and really hope more parents have the opportunity to join this type of bengkel. Few notes on the bengkel that I can still remember:-

1. Perlu berTEGAS dgn anak-anak tapi dgn Kasih Sayang. Yang penting jgn tengking sbb otak kanak2 ni mcm sponge. Kalau parents jenis suka tengking and marah, budak2 nih akan absorb benda yg sama..huhu..I think I need to slowly follow this.

2. Banyakkan GANJARAN - means bukan material semata. Ganjaran boleh jadi dgn pujian saja. If the kids do something good, puji depan muka dia ataupon hugs them dgn kasih sayang, jgn simpan dalam hati. Sbb dgn puji2 an tu, they will enjoy doing good things - Sebenarnya, baru je gula2kan Iman dgn jajan supaya dia tak nanges nk ikut kami ke Digital Mall..isk..isk..

3. Selalunya kalau buat jahat je, parents akan cakap - nanti masuk neraka, etc. Budak2 akan takut so tak buat jahat. Tapi, bila dh hilang takut, they will start buat jahat lagi. Kalau ikut konsep Khalifah ni, they will change from takut2kan to kasih Sayang. Contohya, kalau nk suruh anak2 solat, cakap la dgn budak2, nanti Allah sayang, instead of 'nanti masok neraka'. Allah dah beri nikmat makan, minum, tidur, main etc - so xkan nk solat pon x boleh kan?. - Tis one mmg memerlukan kesabaran yg tinggi. kalau tak boleh jugak baru sebat dgn talipinggang..hehe..ni paling berkesan tapi utk jangkamase pendek saja...

4. Focus on PERIBADI bukan EDUCATION semata-mata - I think we lack on this at school. Semua nk kejar 'A' tapi sahsiah diri tolak tepi. Sbb tu ada kes sekolah tinggi2, tp ikut boipren kafir kawin lari..nauzubillah hi min zalik..mintak jauh sgt menda nih terjadi kpd kaum keluagaku & sahabat2..Bila PERIBADI dh kukuh, insyaAllah ke mana pon budak2 ni di campak, dia akan pandai bawa diri & jaga nama baik keluarga..Ye, parents mana tanak anak2 dia berjaya, kan..?

We spent half a day kt Al-Fatih. Lepas tu kami ke Digital Mall kt PJ carik henpon..:-)..We bought new handphones(trade in 2b precise)..the hubby insists,i just folo....dulu,asal beranak je tuka hp.but tis time around,x ngandung pun dh tuka baru..sy bukannya suka sgt tuka2 henpon.kalau bole nk pkai smp akhir hayat(x kira la hayat hp or me yg smp dulu)..tp tu ler..harap2 henpon ni bertahan lama..it's W902 for me & W890 for hubby. Mine, of course nak the best camera features. I grab for 5.Mega Pixels, 8GB memory card..hehe takpe buleh make it as USB drive..:-)

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Muhriz menjadi bahan ujikaji utk henpon baruku..;-)

Things to do before Jan 1,2009

2008-12-30T14:05:00.005+08:00

New year for Masihi is just around the corner. One day left since today pon dh tokleh nk buat ape pon. I'm supposed to blog abt my cuti bersambung (Krismas + Awal Muharram)but all the related pix are at home PC. Nk transfer to office PC, cable pulak x bwk.

For this entry, I would like to share on items we should do before the new year. Purposely for tax reduction..:-).. Eventhough the government did not imposed so much tax on me (sbb gaji akak pon xde la byk mana pon), but that little amount do matter much to me. Selagi ada yg buleh dikecualikan, akan ku usahakan ke arah itu. Yeah, I'm quite calculative for certain things.

1. SSPN - Checked
Maximum RM 3000. I did open SSPN account for both. RM500 each. Cukup la tuh..:-)

2. Zakat - Half Checked
I did instruct the HR to deduct my salary for the zakat. So, since early this year, no tax deduction in my pay slip. But last month, they did deduct singgit for the tax sbb ada sedikit adjustment to my salary (alhamdulillah). So, to make sure no more tax deduction next month, I need to increase the zakat amout by singgit each month..hehe..akak mmg kedekut..;-)..Actually, I need to pay Zakat KWSP as well since I've already withdraw total of 24459.06 from my EPF account. Dulu saya malas nk bayar. But now I think I should pay and the husband kept on reminding me on this. Moga rezeki tambah berkat..:-)..

3. Books & Magazine
Max RM1000. So, before the year end, pi la MPH or any bookstores and utilized the RM1000. As for me, ntah bape % je I utilize this portion. Takpelah, kalau pon kene tax 1000 nih, baru 2.50 tax I need to pay (eh sesuka hati aku je kasi figure nih..). Takpe lah..kire halal.

4. Buy PC
This portion the other half dah utilized for this year. For me, tak payah la. Next year tgk la kot2 nk beli netbook (ni lakiku racun soh bli).. How I wish there's tax exemption for buying handphones..xde eh?

Others sile rujuk gambar di bawah source I got from here

Any other items I missed? Please let me know ye..;-)

Cerita Hujung Minggu..

2008-12-21T23:15:00.030+08:00

Hari Sabtu

A better half of me plan to service the car at GLENMARIE. Bayangkan lah, punya la jauh nk service kereta. No Nissan service centre nearby and that is really sucks!!..Sakit jiwa ok bile terkenangkan cerita last week cari service centre kt Cheras smpai sesat barat!!..Last2, Glenmarie jugak la tmpt yg di tuju. Initially he plan to go there alone. Hmm..I don't feel that's a good idea by letting him go - alone. Berdua lebih baik. Tapi bertiga is much2 better. Berempat? Alamak Iman, we have to left you, again with bibik. So sorry dear. I know u don't want to follow..:-)..

The service thingy takes not an hour or two. So, we have to go somewhere else. Alang willing to sent us to the nearest shopping complex which is Subang Parade (nih mmg hubby's fevret place sbb tmpt ni agak tenang dari yg lain2).Sementara menunggu Alang , sempat juga menonton majlis pernikahan Mawi kt servis centre tuh. Tapi sekerat jalan je dpt tgk. X pelah..aku pon bukan kemarok sgt nk tgk ko nikah. Sian ko ek x pepasal jer kuar kt berita TV3 yg membayangkan majlis nikah ko tercemar psl derang x dpt buat coverage..haha x pepasal..Nasib ko la MAWI..whether u like it or not, u hv no choice..tu le, sape soh glame..eh, apesal pulak tetiba aku cite psl MAWI?..isk, x seswai ok..

Hari Ahad

We went to Lukman's Wedding at Dewan MBSA. Dah lama x nampak Zai. Since skolah, tapi still maintain macam dulu jugak. Kamal (not in the pics) pon dh beso..dulu kt skolah kecik je budaknya..

Pic 1: Dd & Zai & Ilmi, Zai & Samut's son. kt belakang teselit tu, K1 la..tgh main tak hengat dgn Muhriz.

Pic 2:Ilma, Iman, Muhriz & K1. K1 macam biasa nk lebih outstanding dari yang lain. Sbb tu dia sorg posing kt depan sekali..hehe..yg lelain kt blakang tu cuma mengikut arahan jurukamera saje..;-)

Pic 3:Aidil's wife,Zai & Ilmi, Dd, Kamal's wife & Son, Haku & Iman. I don't know why I look 'wider' in this pix. Or do I have to tell myself that I need to accept the fact that I'm getting faaa..?Oh no..!!

Pic 4:The kids at Pic 2 again. I've told ya, K1 mmg outstanding dari yg lain. Mmg ada bakat jadi Ketua Darjah ni..:-)..

The above pics, with Pengantin lelaki. Mane ntah pengantin pompuan and smp kesudah aku x jumpa!!..hehe..takpelah, insyaAllah lain kali buleh jumpe. To the Bride & Groom, Selamat Pengantin Baru semoga kekal ke akhir hayat..Amin...

While walking to the basement parking(after kenyang makan & borak), Iman asked me, "Ane Ewan? (Mane K1?)..hehe..Since berpindah ke BSP, mmg jarang jumpa org. Sian bebudak ni...

A besfren I've lost along the way..

2008-12-12T07:35:00.008+08:00

It's a Public Holiday yesterday & I got something to do somewhere KL, namely Ampang (eh, ampang selangor lor)..I bring Muhriz along while Iman with Bibik at home..(Iman kecik lagi nnti amim bwk bile Iman dh beso mcm abang long eh..). Park at KLCC and took LRT sampai Ampang Park. From Ampang Park, Zizah a friend of mine merangkap bakal JV partner (tuh pon kalu menang bid ler..) pick us kt tepi mekdi Ampang Park (before that, pi makan prosperity beger kt mekdi..bes..bess)

Now the story of the title starts here..I met my long lost besfren yesterday. The last time we met was on her wedding day, somewhere December 2004..4 years oredi.... It's a coincident and I did not purposely plan to see her. Anyway, glad to see her with her adorable daughter, Sofea (alamak, makcik lupe la nama penuh sofea..hhihi)..She stays at Tiara Duta Condo, Ampang. (kay, she is fine - untuk menjawab ur q on ur latest entry..;-)..)..

Until we meet again..tata

December Rain

2008-12-10T12:15:00.004+08:00

Dh nk dekat lunch hour..takde mende yg bermakne yg aku buat since morning. Ape la nk tarok dlm TimeSheet tuh..Ramai cuti this whole week. Maklumla ada 2 pub hols raya haji + Besday sultan selangor. memasing amik kesempatan. Aku pulak amik kesempatan time cuti krismas + awal muharam. Nak balik pg pulak.. arituh dh balik bp..ikut turn la kan..Tis whole week gak aku lone ranger. Geng makan seme cuti. Utk harini tapau nasik goreng bibik masak pagi tadi. Rasenya cukop la utk tampong lunch skali.

Last week balik BP. ade sikit banjir kt kampung atok. Sib baik x teruk sgt. dah le keta tuh xde insurance banjir. Rasenya lepas nih kene amik la insurance tuh..Malang kan ke x berbau bacin..Nk amik insurance banjir + tanah runtuh..agak2 bape kene top up ek utk amik 2 mende tuh?..xpe la..nnti pk..

Smalam dapat sms abah dari mekah (or madinah) yg berbunyi begini.."Ge jp lgi abh nk mlontar doa kn kshtn abah salm cium ccu abah"..alahai sayu nya hati aku bila dpt kiriman sms abah. Semoga abah,along,abg kamal,cik bae, cik ayob sentiasa sehat dan dpt haji yg mabrur. Mak kate, boleh kata hari2 abah call mak. Kadang nangis, kadang ceria..abah mmg camtu. Nampak garang tapi jiwa nya sentimental. 23DEC nih genap la abah 70 tahun. Semoga abah sehat selalu.

*Mane la nk pi merayau or shd I surfing the internet saje tis lunch hour?..*

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2008-12-02T10:30:00.006+08:00

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I got above message when I tried to access KWSP this morning. I forgot that we can start to fill in forms in order to stick for 11% contribution until I saw few forms were printed in the office. Semangat nya masing2 nk maintain the contribution. Baguslah..Apalah sgt 3% tuh kalu dikurangkan pon...tak jadi ape..So, guys, marilah kita sama2 congestkan traffic KWSP..Kasi meletop. Tu la..sapa suruh buat keputusan yang 'bijak' dan tak 'cerdik' nih. Tak pasal2 kene buat kerja extra!!..

Aku masih tak faham, why they make such a decision..I mean, the decision of 'whoever wants to maintain the 11% contribution need to submit form instead of vice versa..anyone care to explain?

I got to know that whoever contribute 8% have to pay tax more..Betulkah?

Illustration:-

Assume monthly basic salary is RM4000.

- If your monthly EPF contribution is 11% ( RM440 ), taxable income = RM3560, income tax payable = RM77.

- If your monthly EPF contribution is 8% ( RM320 ), taxable income = RM3680, income tax payable = RM109.

(tax akan based on samada single, married wife working no kids, married wife working with kids(1,2,3,etc), married wife not working no kid, married wife working with kids. Sila rujuk di sini )

(Source from : CariGold Forum )

Lack of passion, mungkin..

2008-12-01T23:29:00.006+08:00

As per plan, I did try to make some cup cakes. The effort I made such as:-

Cari resepi mcm nak rak kt tenet
Pi 'Vanilla Pastry' at BB Bangi and bought all the ingredients required.
Beli Philips Stand Mixer (bulan ni mmg over spent..rabak ok!!..tapi sekurang2 aku dh buleh nk buat mende2 yg berkaitan dgn mixer..yeay!!)
Spent most of the time kat dapor (but not only for the cup cakes ye..byk lagi mende lain yg aku buat dgn tapak tanganku ini..sila bace dgn nada x riak..)

Tapi hasilnya agak mengecewakan..:-(.. hampeh.com.. aku memang hampa..and pasrah..nasib baik ade triffle yg yg sedap utk cover kesedihan ku..huhuk..ye, 2x aku buat triffle last weekend dgn rasa yg berbeza..mekasih to Ilie & Hanieliza..ngehehe..

Antara lain yg aku buat last week selain dari cup cake:-

Donut
Sardin Puff
Sardin Roll
Nasik Ayam
Triffle
and last but least, Mee Bandung resepi Muar Asli..

eh..baru tersedar byk jugak mende yg aku masak...Thruthfully - baking, cooking etc is not my passion..seriously. I need to add some 'passion' to the ingredients to make the taste better, I guess..But, can passion be develop?...perhaps..

NotaKaki:-
Another passion to be develop - 'Low Cost' Interior Design..heehee..bolehkah? Where to start....????

Secret Recipe Buy 1 free 1

2008-11-27T17:12:00.003+08:00

I'm not sure whether this promo is true or not. I believe so sbb previously pon SR byk kali buat camni. Malangnya promo ini tidak ada di Alamanda..:-(..

Pending Items

2008-11-27T09:33:00.013+08:00

Procrastinator is another middle name of mine (besides 'LAWA'..*wink..*wink). Lots of pending items need to be done ASAP.

1. Change of Address

RHB for the Credit Cards, OD
Maybank for the Credit Cards, Hire Purchase
CIMB for Credit Card, OD
Bank Rakyat for Credit Card
Citibank for Credit Cards
AIA for Home Loan
EON Bank for Home Loan
Astro
Prudential for Insurance
ING for Insurance
ETIQA for Insurance
Tabung Haji
ASB
ASD

*Banyaknye liabiliti!!

2. Hantar langsir ke kedai sbb terover panjang

3. Follow Up - The lawyer of Chung, Huang & Khalid, sila ke Pejabat Tanah dgn kadar segera!!

4. Print resepi triffle Ilie and cupcake (nak buat belom tentu tapi triffle tuh mcm can make into reality!!)

5. Call Staff Loan centre - Boleh ke kasik Market Value rumah yg kami duduk sekarang agaknye ye?..

6. Submit PM forms

ape lagi ek?..kalu teringat kang tambah..

Miscellaneous Events

2008-11-27T07:29:00.011+08:00

Metrojaya Sale last 2 weeks. Kami merupakan antara org yg awal tiba sbb tanak bersesak-sesak.
Barang yg dibeli hanyalah bedsheet and towels..;-)

This pics I took while we were waiting for the MVEC to be Open..Kitorg tukang potong reben sbb tuh kene dtg awal!!..:-)

Muhriz at Pak Khairul's Convo, PICC. Kami nyaris x jumpa tuan yg ber'konvo' sbb call x berangkat. Sib baik Iman x ikut if not mmg awal2 dh chow. Bunga paling murah di jual dgn harga RM45. I don't hv any idea how much it cost if it's not on Convocation day..

ZOOM Malaysia which was held at One Utama Car Park. We were so unsatitisfied with the location & the way they handled this event. Sunggoh x menariks & we even heard this senior couples yg membebel dgn pihak pengurusan on how bad was the event being handled. Bergema satu terowong tuh. dah le panas takde aircond sbb buat tgh padang. Panas terik lak tuh. Anyway, we bought 2 vouchers for our Cuti2 Mesia next year at Strawberry Park. It costs rm180 for 2D 1N stay. Normal rate is rm240. Aku x penah pi Cameron Highland seumur hidupku..hehe x sabo nk pi makan stroberi cicah coklat!!..

Demam sikit..

2008-11-20T18:09:00.004+08:00

Muhriz x bape sehat. Demam. Kalu x sehat,manje lebih sket. Anak jantan yg manja.hmm..Iman suke buli Abg Long lately ni....lagi2 kalu Abg Long tgh lembik..Anak daraku yg brutal. Sekarang dh pandai pilih baju nk pakai..tuh baju POOH tu..pantang kering...

Demo

2008-11-14T13:47:00.001+08:00

Hehe.ni episod demo dd suroh tunjok..

Jutawan Rupiah

2008-11-13T16:20:00.001+08:00

The maid called..'cik,ringgit mahal harini.330 boleh dpt sejuta.sisa duit sy tu kalau dpt tukarkan dulu..'. Kebetulan pulak ade money changer kt seblah mamak ni.tp 340 br dpt sejuta. Since she insists,aku tukakan sj.sok kang kalu 300 dh bole dpt sejuta jgn plak tegolek dpn aku mintak adv bayo gaji!!

Tag diri sendiri

2008-11-13T15:16:00.002+08:00

P/S:ikek, aku amik gambo dari bwh meja psl org blakang berdehem2 je bile aku tonyoh kamera depan muka aku walaupon aku gase dia berdehem sbb sakit tekak!!..isk..bape la bil tepon aku bulan nih gamaknye..

Marty headgear

2008-11-13T14:22:00.001+08:00

Bought tis at McD..

Mobile blog..

2008-11-13T10:11:00.002+08:00

Hehe..saje ngetest sent gambo to blog..inila hasilnya..tadaa..

I'm out of office..

2008-11-12T23:23:00.006+08:00

Ntah kenape, lately nih memang tanak langsung tgk blog, apetah lagi nk hapdet. Ala2 mcm kene buatan org..haha..(ade ke org buat supaye membenci utk bukak blog sendiri?..)hehe..aku saje merapek memalam bute neh..it's nearly 2 weeks since we move to the new house. Thanks to dd mudon kerana sudi membantu..and tak lupa kat k1 yg sgt rajin melayan Muhriz & Iman (esp Iman..)..bolehla aunty gg masukkan k1 dlm toplist calon menantu..haha..merepek lagi aku ni..ikutkan hati aku maleh dh nk berpindah randah..walaupon most of the time aku cume tgk jer org2 nih angkat brg, tp penat juge nk tunggu seme setel...cemanepon, Alhamdulillah episod pindah umah dh pon berakhir..tunggu next episod of pindah rumah pulok(hwaa..penat nye bile pk..tu baru pk tuh)..

Rajin tak anak dara ku ini? Harap2 sampai besa dia rajin camnih..:-)

This whole week aku mmg xde kt opis. Ada training kt CSA for a week. Eventhough the training is too technical & I don't really like to attend such course, at least I'm out of office. Itu yg penting. Sempat juga aku jumpa kwn2 kt Banting/PPP Emma, Ana, Farah...Emma mmg trainer pon kt CSA tu..the only Malay trainer..hehe..So, lunch hour mmg xde hal le..Dah le training centre tu kt Amcorp mall. Hari2 ade je mende yg aku beli. Sib baik sandal yg menangkap pandangan aku tuh xde size yg muat..kalu dak, sure aku dh beli..hmm..kronik juga kalu training kt sini sebulan!!..(i'm looking forward to 'seeing only' the flea market tis Friday..!!..i told u dat I love Fridays, remember??..hehe)

Sepanjang training ni jugak hari2 aku naik lrt. Car pool dgn lakiku + his ofismate (sayangnye ofismate dia nih dh betunang..kalu dak sure aku dh rekomen kt kekwn yg masih single..hmm). Parking kt KLCC, naik tren smp lrt Tmn Jaya..Teringat zaman single dulu di mana Putra LRT tu mmg main transport. LRT masih juga mcm dulu. Sapa yg dpt duduk tuh mmg akan terus buat pejam mata supaya x perlu kasik seat utk org2 yg sepatutnya. Aku mmg x tergamak nk dudok if yg berdiri depan aku tuh org tua or yg nampak prut buncit sket(aku agak dia peknen arr tuh)..untong la sesapa yg berperut buncit if diri depan aku..mmg aku kasik seat punya..(hehe, mcm le aku x buncit!!.)..

Lately ni juga, aku ske masok FACEBOOK. tu jugak la sebabnya aku maleh nk bukak blog doh..hehe..kt fb ade ex-opismate, and mostly warga SMSJ yg ade kt sane..mmg meriah and aku ske. Ade juga yg aku x kenal mintak add..sometimes I wonder, mmg derng ke yg nk add aku or system generated?..kalu aku la, maleh aku nk add org yg aku x kenal. Tp kenape org neh nk add aku yg derang x kenal pon?..ntah la..manusia ni mmg mcm2 kan....

TGI Friday!!..

2008-10-24T10:07:00.005+08:00

I like Friday. Ini adalah kerana:-

1) Selain ia adalah penghulu segala hari, Jumaat juge merupakan hari terakhir bekerja utk minggu itu.

2) Balik 4.45 p.m..(Walaupon ade org lain balik cepat dari ni, aku tatap suke ok)

3) Walaupon ade keje byk kt opis, tp rase mcm xde keje & asik nk bersantai jer..(tp lately aku mmg xde mood nk buat keje la..why leh?..xkan nk kene cari keje baru plak kot??..baru setahun lebey kt sini..isk..kronik neh)

4) Ada 2 hari lagi utk aku bersantai sebelum start the Monday blues..

5) Waktu lunch yg panjang walaupon pade hakikatnye waktu rehat sepatutnye sama jer dgn hari lain!!..hehe

eh tu je eh?..igt kan byk sgt mende yg best..

So, do u like Fridays like I do?

FB Newcomer

2008-10-23T12:49:00.005+08:00

It's not that I didn't know abt it. It's just that malas nk subscribe. Akhirnya, aku subscribe jua atas 'desakan' dd..hehe..

Teruja juga bila masok sbb ramai giler umat yg aku kenal kt FB nih..seniors & juniors kt skolah dulu punya la ramai..Mcm jejak kasih pon ade..Agak advance compared to Friendster.Seme yg aku kenal aku add kt listing..end up arini msg from FB asik jer masuk inbox gmail ku..

For those yg letak msg, invite, etc..sori I can't reply promptly. Kt opis block FB access (phew, sib baik..if not, mampuih aku x buat keje dok ngadap FB jer..huhu)..kalu sempat balik keje kang aku reply seme..(hubby & kids, pls bear with me ye...;-)...)

*FB=Facebook

Raya Pot Luck - Let the pictures do the talking..

2008-10-21T02:04:00.015+08:00

Raya Pix

2008-10-12T17:53:00.019+08:00

Some Raya Pics for sharing..

Iman & Muhriz di pagi raya..Susah betol nk soh Iman posing bebetul
depan kamera!!..

This year turn 1st raye at Pasir Gudang, my hometown. Seme adik beradikku ade
di pagi raye kecuali Alang & family. They arrived at 1st Raye nite..

Above pix at Along's new house. Mmg agak besar le umah baru dia neh siap ade kolam ikan depan
master bedroom..Alhamdulillah murah rezeki Along & Family and we are happy for her..penat gak bejalan dlm umah dia.. tuh pon aku x abeh round lagi..Kolam ikan tuh blom letak ikan..'Ikan2' besar dok sebok 'kecebur' tak abeh2 kt kolam tuh..Mcm biasa Muhriz langsong tak teringin nak masuk kolam tuh..cube tgk gamba dia cuma berani berenang kt tepi kolam saje dan merendam kaki ala2 buat Fish Spa pulak!!..

Raye ke-3 kami pi beraya ke rumah Ninie with Dd Mudon & Family..Dd bawak 2 org anak buah dia..Yg amik gamba kami ni si Najwa tu ler, anak buah Dd..buleh di harap gak budak neh..gambo mmg perfect dia amek xde la gamba ilang kepala or sebelah badan jer yg masok.hehe...:-)..Ninie masak Nasi Ayam, walaupon tgh sarat..Thanks ye Ninie..susah2 jer..Next time aku bwk tapawe kot2 buleh tapau bwk balik!!..ngeheheehe..

Ni plak kt umah Rozie Mancoi..1st time pi umah depa..Nyaris2 tak pi psl JC dh mcm tak larat jer tp aku insist gak..bile lagi nk jumpa kengkawan..kan?..Yg datang Awie Hubby & Nani, Azri Farah & Imtiaz Hannah, tak ketinggalan Didie Mudon & K1 yg dh ngorok..Seme couple SMSJ kecuali Awie..Nih mcm ala2 reunion Persatuan Couple SMSJ lak..Nk kate AGM tak jugak psl tiada sebarang perlantikan dibuat pd malam tersebot..hehe..Rerupanya tuan rumah ade buat biznes hebat skang neh..Geram aku tgk Hadeef..kus semangat sgt montel & cumel..

Kak Chik McKarp & Family datang beraye ke Batu Pahat umah atok (atok JC) kat Semerah...Ade rezki jumpa Kak Chik tahun ni..Kebetulan depa pi beraya umah sedara mara McKarp kt Sarang Buaya, singgah ler umah atok sbb mmg dekat pon dgn sarang buaya tuh..Anak Achik yg sulong tuh tido plak x dapek nk snap gamba..Yg 2nd nama dia Huda Kaisara..Kate Achik dia tak tiru nama Kaisara tuh sbb citer Kaisara tuh kuar kt TV lepas anak dia lahir..Pls take note..hehe..Oh ye, cuba tgk 2 org bapak budak tuh..lebar kan?..hehe..McKarp, minta maaf zahir batin..jgn mare aar..

Ni kt BP umah Nyai..penat aku keja bebudak nih berlari2 kt laman..maklum le umah kampung laman mmg besor..
tak dapek kalu kt bandor neh..

Dagu Muhriz tebelah masa pi beraya kt Endau..Last year, kepala kena jahit. Sib baik dagu tuh tak kene jahit cume gam jer..besa gak le tebelah dagu tuh ngeri aku tgk dokter tuh buat untuk gamkan dagu tebelah tuh..yg aku kagum Muhriz langsong x nanges..Pelik juge aku tgk..

Raye kali nih mmg hectic giler smp Iman pon tetido sambil berdiri!!..

Gamba 1st tuh Muhriz kt dlm fitting room dgn Ayah..tuh raye ke-2 baru nk cari baju raya boleh tak?..
punye le cerewet carik baju tak paham betol aku..

Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir Batin

2008-10-11T23:58:00.009+08:00

Hope it's not too late..Harap maaf Zahir Batin. Raya tahun ni kami sibuk berkemas utk berpindah rumah. Didn't plan to hold any Raya Open House. But, if anyone nak dtg, dtg je la..raye kan..cumanya makanan mungkin x brape meriah setakat kuih raya 3-4 jenis je ler..:-)

Pix of us di pagi raye..Thanx to Ude & Co for
the free photograpy service!!

Ayat-ayat Cinta bercerita...

2008-10-11T23:46:00.010+08:00

Somebody talked abt the novel few months back. I never knew that it was translated into a movie until I saw the 'gezet' at Tv3. Ntah kenapa I'm so keen to watch it. Tercapai juge hasratku utk menonton movie itu last nite, walaupon Muhriz asik merengek soh alih tgk cerita hantu at the first hour.(mane de citer antu mlm tadi anyway!!..nih mesti dia expect nk tgk cite 'Kekasihku Seru' lepas berita abes!!)

The movie was great. An Islamic love story which I can't imagine any of our local malaysian director can produce. And yes, it was an Indonesian movie berlatar belakangkan Arabic culture. Cerita ini juga berjaya membuatkan aku menangis sambil mencebik bibir!!..huh..dh lame aku x nanges bile tgk tv,ok!!..Maybe it was due to the focus I put throughout the movie... Muhriz tido after the 1st hour, Iman awal2 dh tido while the other half masih di kantor!!.

Sambil melipat baju yg bertimbun yg sama tinggi dgn meja makan(lebih kurang..), I did manage to watch it until it ends. Rase mcm nak pi carik novel nih le..I mean, nak pinjam..hehe..sape ade ek?Dah lame x bace novel since college. tuh pon bace novel2 klasik psl kene buat review utk subject malay literature..hmm..keadaan sekarang mmg x memungkinkan aku utk addicted bace novel yg berbagai..

Hero cite nih mmg ganteng yg amat..Mmg jauh panggang dari api kalu nk compare dgn Rosyam Noor ( can't think of any better actor now)..dah le ensem watak dia pon sgt la best nya. Byk value citer ni sebenanye. Ada jugak selit pasal kisah Nabi Yusof dan Zulaikha..baru ku tahu the real story of this sirah nabawiyah..ye, sunggoh cetek pengetahuan sirah nabi aku sebenanye...Ade satu ayat dlm citer nih yg paling aku ingat..'Cinta dan keinginan untuk memiliki adalah sesuatu yg berbeza'(lebih kurang la)..tapi aku pon x paham ape maksud die..hehe..

Maleh nk review psl citer neh psl aku nk update citer raye plak..;-)

p/s: Kebetulan ada Herbalis from Sajoha ade gak buat review citer neh kt blog dia..

My patience has it's limit!!!.

2008-09-25T14:31:00.008+08:00

Tensen 1

Ye, saya sedang marah..Tensen betol gwa..Arini aku mmg target nk chow kuar pi soping di Alamanda tepat kol 12 tghari. 12.01 aku trus cabot and drove my car, heading to Alamanda as per plan. Tetiba this one user yg mmg aku menyampah betol la kalu depa nih call..kalu call sure ade system problem..tak penah nye call banje makan ke ape ke..Aku kate la aku dh kuar nk soping raye. Dia kate sistem tokleh upload file. dari pagi tadi lagi..Ye, dari pagi tadi mmg derang ade call tapi aku maleh nk layan igtkan sbb network problem ke ape ke..aku suspek nih mesti tak lain kes hard disk dh tinggal 0 bytes neh..adei la..aku kate buleh dak lepas lunch nnti aku tgk..dia kate customer dari pagi tadik dh asik call jer tanye..hmm..pedulik ape aku..aku dh ckp byk kali sistem tuh dh xde sapot dah..OS dh la Windows NT..zaman bile punye OS ntah..pehtu buleh dak space untuk drive C dia cuma 1GB jer..aku punye thumbdrive pon lagi beso la..Bukannya xde sistem baru utk bertukar tp mmg aku x phm la org bisnes nih..padehal in the same group cuma lain entiti jer..ape le salahnya guna sistem yg dari entiti lain ni dulu..aku takot nnti customer yg lari padan muke korang..bab2 duit masuk nih org mmg sensitip. Kalu asik jer tokleh process payment file tuh lelame kang korg yg xde bisnes..padan muke korg!!..bodos betol la..sat lagi aku nk karang email nak kasik boss soh dia propose corruptkan server burok tuh skang..bile server tuh dh langsong x buleh gune, takyah la sapot lagi sistem bungok neh..

Dengan keras hatinye aku truskan je perjalanan ke Alamanda target at least buleh grab 1 shirt for the husband..Dia bukannye kesah psl baju raye..aku buleh jer maleh nk kesah tapi kang nnti org kate laki aku comot plak..huhuhu..

Byk nye baju2 budak2 yg comei di kiri kanan kedai nih. Aku sempat jeling dari luar jer. Ade lagi bj bebudak ni yg aku nk bli..dah lame aku nk carik pants putih for Muhriz tp x jejumpe..susah betol nk dpt..asik kaler coklat & coklat cair, jeans..huh, busan tau. Au mmg ske suar kaler putih...yg Iman aku dh dpt smalam kt kedai bebe tuh..

Aku sempat merayap gak kt PARKSON tuh..amik satu bj pehtu tgk kt cashier tuh ramai plak tgh bratur..adoi la..hatiku sgt gundah gulana dek kerana sistem yg hampeh & dh nk mampos tuh. aku pon campak je baju tuh, bayo parking and speed blk opis..dlm dan luar hatiku mmg asik menyumpah2 juge..kurg pahale posa arini.

Tensen 2

Semasa drive ke Alamanda juge, the husband call. Buleh tak mlm nih dia kene pi KERTEH di Terengganu?..oii..org dh nak raye la..bongok betol la PM dia tuh (PM:Project Manager ye, bukan Perdana Menteri). Dah le aku tgh tongganglanggang bibik xde balik Indon..pehtu nk kene handle anak2 haku yg ske sgt melalak pepagi sebelom pi nursery & time dekat2 nk bebuka..takkan aku nk handle sensorg plak sok bebuke nih wei..huhuhu...nampaknya harapan tipis utk join dak2 nih pi sunway piramid. mmg x kesampaian la jawapnye..huhu..didie, tapawe ko tuh aku simpan jek la dolu..unless ko nk singgah amek kt umah lps pi Sunway Piramid. Kem salam comolot kt dak2 yg join tuh eh..huhuhuhuhuhu

Akhirnye..

2008-09-19T23:24:00.004+08:00

Berjaye jugak aku tuko skin blog neh..hehe..last attempt was a failure...tonite ok plak..tatau la kenape..hmm..in case kalu tuko lg next time, nih ler gambo skin baru stakat ari nih..;-)

I admire those pics

2008-09-14T22:00:00.007+08:00

While exploring the new version of Picasa, I found below pics in the JC's E90 folder. Couldn't help but admire those!!. Maybe because of the kids inside or it's just the scenery or the art taking a pics. Yeah, he is quite creative actually but I just don't want to tell him!!. Rerupanya dulu kt skolah dia ler yg start ukir bunga rose kat papan besi serpihan dari kelas Mr. Heng / Cikgu Ismail. Those yg pernah dapat souvenir itu from mantan kekasih memasing, mungkin itu adalah hasil tangan JC..hehe..I've got one tapi mane ntah aku letak...btw, gambar2 di bawah di ambil sekitar kantorku..2 bulan lepas..:-)

I just don't know how to pose!!..

How about this..?

One day, my hair will grow juge..It's just a matter of time..:-)

2 budak busyuk...

2 budak masyam..

Perindu sepi?..oh no, ur still below age!!..

Cerita ceriti..

2008-09-14T16:50:00.003+08:00

Tak Sahor
This is the 1st time in this year of Ramadhan I did not took the sahor. The husband's alarm rang at 4.30 but I turned it off. I woke up normally at 5 a.m and it's already 6 a.m. Tido balik until I realize it's already 7 a.m!!..I tot all the 'setan' took 1 month leave but what is in me?.Astaghfirullah..hmm..Alhamdulillah, walaupon x sahor, I'm not soo weak to sit in front of this PC and update this blog!!..hehe

Bibik
2 days to go before she went off for cuti raye. Hopefully she will not break her promise to come back and finish her contract at least. I can feel that she will be back, eventhough everybody around me was doubt she will do so. "Kalau saya nak kahwin pun, tunggu kontrak nya habis dulu"..Yeah, I keep ur word. I took all the baju which are in 'dormant' mode and gave to her. Feel free to take it and bring back to Indon. I'm practising zero inventory here..I can see a smile on her face. I hope she will apreciate it and gave those bajus to whoever she wish to give.

Nursery while bibik is away.
The kids will be place at the nursery nearby. I'm not so worried abt Muhriz but Iman. Since she was a baby (now still a baby), bibik is the one took care of her. Furthermore, she is so afraid to strangers. I have told the Nursery's owner many times abt Iman and hope they will prepare themselves in handling her. "Biase kalu budak baru tinggal sini, seminggu baru OK"..hmm sound good. That means they are mentally and physically prepared. Dear kids, how I wish not to outsource the task of taking care of you both but I have no choice. Living here in Malaysia is so demanding...what to do..

Working in KL for the other half of Ramadhan?
This is not so good news. Dah la bibik xde, kena pulak keje kt KL in this period of time. There will be a merger of 2 systems and the boss wants me to be part of the team. Adoi la.."Waa..kaya la u dapt claim pegi KL for this 2 weeks", said the boss. Who cares??..I don't really teruja abt the claim. I'm just worried that I will not be able to fetch the kids on time. Dah la bulan posa. Awal2 I did sound the other half and tak terkecuali my BIL to fetch the kids if I was late. Hopefully it is not so bad, huh..

Dd, how are you doing?
Hopefully you are doing fine. Dugaan Allah memang hebat dan orang yg hebat sahaja dapat handle this situation like u both did. Semoga arwah ditempatkan disisi orang2 yang beriman..Al-Fatihah to Allahyarham Pakcik Nordin...

Ramadhan datang lagi..

2008-09-01T13:24:00.004+08:00

Alhamdulillah..dapat lagi bertemu Ramadhan utk kali ini. Last nite, I managed to join the tarawikh kat surau belakang rumah. Ni je la chance yg ade utk join tarawikh surau sini..lepas nih dh pindah dah!!..Ramai juga yg dtg..penuh saf muslimah..yg bestnya surau nih ade air-cond..so, jemaah pon xde la yg komplen kepanasan. harap2 kuat la semangat nk join tarawikh2 di mlm2 yg lain..the last time pi join tarawikh mase preknen kan Muhriz..the next year pulak xleh nk pi sbb Muhriz kecik lagi + xde maid to look after him. The other year, Iman was around and still a baby..Muhriz pulak surely melalak nk ikut kalu nk pi pon..So this year, I guess no more excuses..walaupon both melalak nk ikut, kugagahi jua kaki ini utk melangkah ke surau tu..Ape guna ade bibik kalu xleh nk look after the kids kan?..

All the while Allah dh bagi kesenangan + kebahagiaan..Tapi mase terluang utk Dia sgt la sedikit..sgt x adil kan? Tapi Allah masih juga bagi rezeki yg alhamdulillah cukup untuk kami anak beranak...Semoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih baik dari yg sebelumnya, insyaAllah..

p/s: sebenarnya nk surfing resepi bebuke..arghhh...tensennya bile memikirkannye!!

Me not a slim Nagger nor a Regretter..(seriously aku tatau nk letak tajuk ape!!.)

2008-08-25T01:34:00.007+08:00

it's almost 1 a.m and Muhriz is still watching Elmo's World dgn muke penuh bedak sambil berbaring.,.seriously i don't have the capability untuk berleter like what other people have..hehe, sometimes I wish I could..I'm sure tomorrow will be a hard time for bibik to wake him up. it's a school day tomorrow after 1 week break, remember..?Arghh..continuing with Barney la pulak..he didn't seems to like watching Barney pon all the while. Mate nya still 'buntang' maybe due to tido petang kol 5. Suka hati la Muish nak tido kol bape pon..Miman dh togolek dari tadi sebelum melekat dibadanku..And me? still awake juge..trying to put some stories for sharing..

Tido la Muish oii..

23 August was a big day for Wak Din. He used to be my classmate from form 1 to 3. We went there without bringing the kids. Both were sleeping and don't have a heart to wake them up..so, tata Muish & Miman..we didn't left u both purposely..:-)..Arrive there at the same time with DD & Mudon..while Dol Kecik & Wife + Pe'ot + 'his partner'(perhaps his future wife..?) were in he midst of finishing their dishes. Kayat pon dh abes makan but I can't see the wife. He brought the whole family but only manage to see the daughter and his eldest (itupon setelah di tunjuk oleh dd dari jauh...) dah besar anak si kayad nih..Bochak arrive at a later time with his 3 sons and a wife.

Top:Seriously jealous tgk dd yg ramping tu..maybe I shld thingkg of taking HERBALIFE?..
Bottom:Perantin yg ceria & tetamu yg tidak kurang ceria juge!!

Okeh enuff abt the kenduri kawen. Went to PWTC for MAPEX 2008. Initially, we didn't know the event is ON and did not plan to go there pon. We went to previous MAPEX quite a few times but never bought any house from there. Cuci mate saje..but this time around ntah macamane ter'book' one apartment at Bangi. The location is quite strategik(near GMI,UKM,KTM Komuter) and we bought it purposely for investment. The downpayment cost only 500 and that's all we have to pay. All the fees (legas, S&P, lawyer fees) absorbed by both developer & bank. Once the project completed with CF, we just want to sell it and hopefully by that time the Market Value has gone up to at least 20%..hopefully..trying to get the capital appreciation here...hmm..

Gambar Hiasan : Takde mengene dgn ini cerita!!

Lately..so very busy searching for a house to rent / to buy / to invest. Adoii..sometimes I felt soo regret for letting go my house..but what to do..Nasi suda menjadi bubor..dah jual xkan nak mintak balik..burok siku namanye..takpelah..We plan to rent a hse at Bangi and if we didn't have the 'sense of belonging' while staying there, then we decided to go back to Shah Alam and stay there for good!!!..Maybe Putra Heights or Laman Seri?..Hopefully the price won't go up yet..ye lah, since the New Proposed LRT stations were announced in the paper last week, surely property at Subang,USJ/Puchong and Putra Heights will go up eventho the project xtau bile start n siap!!..and again, me felt sooo regret for letting go my hse...:-(

The Chosen One

2008-08-13T16:34:00.034+08:00

This entry is dedicated to my everdearest friend,dd & mudon..

I really hope by the time you read this entry, everything is back to normal. Please put back the smile on your face and live the life as before. Lots more people needs you especially the energetic K1..;-)
Got this few quotes from one of the blog I read. Hope it helps to reduce whatever feeling u felt inside.

1) Ujian Allah datang dalam pelbagai bentuk. Tidak semua ujian yang diberi berbentuk musibah. Ada juga yang berbentuk kemewahan, pangkat dan kesenangan. Beruntunglah jika kita di uji dengan musibah kerana dgn itu kita dapat mendekatkan diri kepadaNya, insyaAllah..

2) Setiap apa yg berlaku pasti ada hikmah di sebaliknya. Allah menguji hambanya utk mengukuhkan Iman di hati mereka.Tanpa kita sedari, dengan ujian itu, Allah telah memberi kita 2 nikmat terbesar:Iman dan Ilmu...Semakin hebat badai melanda, semakin dekat kita kpd Nya. Bila kita di timpa masalah, kita akn cuba mencari penyelesaian, dengan itu ilmu kita bertambah secara langsung dan tak langsung.

3) Dirawikan drp Nabi Saw,sesungguhnya baginda bersabda: Allah berkata:

Barangsiapa ditimpa bencana,lalu memohon perlindungan drpKu,pasti Aku memberinya sblm dia meminta.Dan barangsiapa ditimpa bencana, lalu dia meminta perlindungn kepada makhluk,pasti Kututup semua pintu langit baginya.

4) Bersabar akan musibah itu dan redha akn ketentuanNya. Allah telah mengatur perjalanan hidup kita begitu cantik sekali. Jika kita kehilangan sesuatu(yg amat di sayangi)pasti Dia akan menggantikan dengan sesuatu yg lebih baik.

5) Junaid al-Baghdadi ra telah berkata:

Bala itu merupakan pelita bg org arif,menyedarkan org murtad,memperbaiki org mukmin dan menghancurkan org yg lupa.Tidak seorang pun akn mendpt manisnya Iman sblm dia ditimpa bala, rela dan bersabar.

6) Rasulullah bersabda:

Barangsiapa sakit semalam, dia sabar dan rela kpd Allah, maka bersih drpd dosa bagaikan ketika dia lahir dari perut ibunya.Jika engkau sakit,jgnlah segera meminta sembuh

7) Drpd Muaz bin Jabal ra,baginda berkata:

Ketika Allah menguji hamba yg mukmin dgn suatu bencana.Dia berkata kpd malaikat pencatat amal buruk,"Hapuskan catatannya drpdnya". Dan Dia berkata kpd malaikat pncatat amal baik,"Tuliskan utk hambaKu yg lebih baik drp apa yg dia buat".

8)Seseorang tidak mengetahui,apa yg tersembunyi untuknya di antara bermacam-macam kesenangan.... (As Sajadah:17)

9) Allah telah menjanjikan kpd org2 mukmin lalki dan perempuan(akan mdpt)syurga yg mengalir
dibawahnya sungai2,mereka kekal didlmnya dan (mendpt) tmpt yg lebih baik di Syurga 'Adn.
Dan keredhaan Allah lbh besar. Itulah kemenangan yg agung. (at Taubah :72)

10) Redhalah akan setiap ketentuan.Kerana sesungguhnya kita yg di uji ini merupakan insan yg terpilih. Manusia yg hebat itu lahir drpd ujian yg hebat. Allah telah memilih kita, kerana Dia tahu kita boleh mengatasinya. Sesungguhnya kita insan yg bertuah kerana musibah itu bukan saja mendekatkan kita kpd Rabb tetapi mengukuhkan iman dan taqwa di jiwa kita.

Wallahu'alam..

See..you guys are the chosen one. Yasmin dah tersenyum di sana. Lembutnya pipi bila di cium selepas di solatkan. Budak kecik takde dosa..I'm thankful to the Almighty for being able to see her before she left, hear her voice and talk to her. dd, surely she don't want you to be sad anymore...cheer up ye..;-)

Al-Fatihah to Allahyarhamah Airin Yasmin binti Hisyamuddin ( 1 November 2005 - 11 August 2008 )..

Weekend yg padat..

2008-08-03T23:28:00.007+08:00

Saturday - House to let, anyone?

We went out for house-for-rent survey..hehe..gilos. dh ade rumah pehtu gatal plak nak jual!!..We both agreed to sell the hse bcoz we don't see ourselves staying here sampai tua..So, before more money spent to pay the installment, it is better to let it go..Sebenarnya aku sayang juga kt umah ni..walaupon it's quite old, but this is our 1st house. You know la, cinta pertama..ahaks..

So, anybody knows sape yg rent their house at Bangi/Putrajaya area? Kalu buleh nk double storey with kitchen cabinet tapi nk yg murah..buleh ke?..hehehehe..

Mane nk dok lepas neh eh?..

Sunday - Mid Valley & KLCC ( again?!!!)

It's a Maybank TreatPoints events at MV. Yeah..really looking forward for this event!!..Ada la sket point yg buleh redeem. Point JC yg byk..point aku sket jek tapi aku yg over nk redeem bagai..hehe..aku hanya wanita biasa.. A lots of choices we have for redemption. Rambang juge mata..'Hasil daripada kemusnahan masa lampau' we (I) got VISION set. RP is about 300++..redemption points 47000. Balance of the points I took sunglasses - to replace it with mine yg dah hancur lebur x pasan tepijak!!..Sume point aku yg redeem...ngeheehe..

Then, we headed to KLCC & Suria KLCC ( I don't know why they put both convention centre and city centre the same name - KLCC. Is there no other better name or what??!!.hmm). At Convention Centre ada PC Fair. The last time I went to PC fair was during PPP ke? tak igt tapi mmg dh lame tak pi. It's JC who wants to go. Nk bli software microsoft but then out of stock. Luckily we can just book and they will courier it later. The promo price still available..hehe.. If it's me, I just don't bother to buy the software. Just get the pirate one..;-)..Some pics for sharing..

Iman kene tinggal..sbb tuh x de dalm gambo!!..

Agak sakan juge kami berposing di KLCC..Bukan slalu dpt dtg sinih!!

Percaya pada rezeki..

2008-07-30T17:49:00.004+08:00

Alhamdulillah, after a series of 'view to appreciate' session akhirnya ada juga buyer(in fact buyers!!) rumah burukku itu. Thanks to mudah.com.my and Ilie for highlighting.

The buyer is no other than my neighbour!!(but not so neighbour bcoz she lives at the other side of lorong). Our maids are quite close and my maid will always lepak at her house after fetching Muhriz from school...hehe ..I realize that she is my neighbour when she mentioned that she lives nearby - corner lot. I asked her 'Nih majikan Sarmi ke?'. Then she said 'Ha ah..mane tau?'..hehe terase lawak jer time tuh.. We never met before (hmm..biaselah masing2 kerja!!). She never step into our hse yet has confirmed to buy the house. Boleh gitu? I insist her to view (to appreciate)the hse and don't want her to regret later. But she couldn't commit any dates to do so due to work late. Hari2 balik pukul 9 malam. Both the husband & wife works in KL and bankers but decided to settle down at Shah Alam..they ride on motorcycle so no issues on toll, jam or parking..

Later on the same day, another person called me to view the hse. He is an agent.According to him, he has a buyer and already view my hse from outside while we were not home last weekend. Basically he has agreed to buy but still want to view the condition inside the hse this weekend. The price he has agreed is higher by 5k (not including the agent comission) than I have agreed with my neighbour. Camno tuh?..Iye, ikutkan hati of course la nak jual kat yg higher value. Tapi tak sedap pulak sbb dh agreed dgn the neighbour.

Akhirnya, aku akur dan memujuk hatiku sambil berkata 'Percaya pada rezeki yang Allah bagi'. I believe I will get the 5k later, through other channel of rezeki...Insya-Allah..:-)

2008-07-22T18:51:00.001+08:00

Sepetang di Shah Alam..

2008-07-15T03:48:00.011+08:00

It's Sunday evening and the feeling is soo different with Friday evening..huhu..JC said he wants to go out for a while to withdraw some cash from ATM..and I said..'aik, sok kan boleh..kt opis tuh kiri kanan ade ATM..hehe..then, he said he just want to go out..saje..isk..mane buleh kuar sensorang..nk itut!!..

So, after he had done with the main purpose, then we decided to go to the nearby Tasik at Seksyen 27. We never thought there is such a 'Tasik' nearby. I tot it's just a playground and mini taman there. The kids - so excited macam tak pernah bersiar-siar..berlari -lari smp x larat nak kejar..mmg terserlah ke 'sprinter' an mereka..haha....it's ok..kasik chan sket kt derang. Best jugak la tgk ramai org beriadah di situ...

Achtung for Credit Card Users!!!

2008-07-14T08:50:00.012+08:00

It all about the new Tier Pricing Structure (TPS) and revision on Late Payment & Interest Free Period!!..It started on 1st July 2008. Please get your statement and check whether any letter about it attached to your statement.

The Bad - Late Payment & Interest Free Period

1. Late Payment Charges - A minimum of RM10 OR 1% of the total balance outstanding as at your statement date, whichever is higher, up to a maximum of RM100. Previously, it's a minimum of RM5 only..

2. Interest Free Period for Retail Transaction - You can still enjoy 20 days interest free if all your retail transactions of the previous month are fully paid. If you opt to pay partial or minimum payment, finance charges on retail transactions will be calculated from the day the transaction is posted to your card account. Previously, you can still enjoy 20 days interest free for the current month retail transaction, regardless of any amt you paid for the previous bill.

The Good - Tiered Pricing Structure (TPS)

1. For 12 Months Prompt Payment - The new interest is 15%. Previously the payment charges is 18% per annum.
2. For 10 Months Prompt Payment - The new interest is 17%.
3. Interest rate of 18% per annum if you did not fall under both items mentioned.

So What To Do..?

Let's see what choices do we have to overcome this problem. I mean, to avoid from this unnecessary charges & interest.

Balance Transfer

If you have a huge amt of outstanding balance for your credit card, you can choose to do Balance Transfer. Most of the banks offers Balance Transfer programs and it varies between banks. RHB also have it too..;-). Will dig it out for you if you want to know more (RHB only ye)

One of the best Balance Transfer program offers by Bank Islam - 0% interest up to 3 months installment, which can be illustrated as below:-

1. Outstanding Balance at Cetibank = RM1500

2. Balance Transfer at Bank Islam for 3 months = RM500 per month x 3 with 0% interest.

3. Flat charges regardles of how much amount you transfered is RM6.20.

Other banks also have this facility. Charges & Interest might be vary. Some might charge 3% of the amt transfered. It's your call to check it out..;-)

Emergency Fund

Prepare your emergency fund and make it in the form of Overdraft Facility. Use it during emergency only and pay back to this fund whenever you got extra!!. You choose it whether or not to have extra..;-)

Kelas Pengurusan Kad Kredit by URUSINSAN

http://www.urusinsan.net/event. Register to the forum if you want to know more.

Easy Payment Plan

1. Reduce the interest rate from 18% p.a. to as low as 5% - 9% p.a.

2. Reduce minimum payment up to 44.4%.

3. Settle the outstanding within 3 years.

4. Refresh record for increasing credit limit.

5. No processing fee.

6. 100% approval.

7. No Cash Advance FEE.

8. Can collect points

9. Allow transfer from one bank to another bank.

10. Good record in Bank Negara CCRIS.

11. In the case of early settlement, some bank only charge less than RM50. Some are FOC.

Tell me if you need further details on this..

Personal Loan

This is very the last choice!!. But still, better than the Credit Card interest. Make sure after you pay the cards, cut it off and throw it away..(and use another card..hehe..)

Conclusion

1. No impact for those who make prompt and full payment before the due date.

2. Spent and act smart. Do not make a habit by paying the minimum payment. Please do balance transfer which will give you as minimum as 0% interest of the amount transfered.

Below illustration tells a little bit abt what I have wrote..Hope it helps...;-)

Too small eh?..Sape nk kasitau je ler..nnti aku email..hehe

Macam-macam cerita

2008-07-07T11:46:00.004+08:00

So many things running thru my head..so many things to write but looking at the time now, it's already 1.14 a.m!!..Okeh..Will share few things yg bermain di fikiranku ini:-

1) Mak & Abah

Received call from Abah this evening and Alhamdulillah he can walk again without using the clutch. He felt down at the kithchen due to the slippery floor. Dia tadah filtered water kt dapur then lupe nk tutup. Banjir ler dapur tuh. Pastuh tak perasan, tergelincir & jatuh. Kesian abah. He was rushing sbb nk ikut hantar mak pi spital for her minor operation untuk buang hempedu. Luckily Angah & Chik ada skali. Siap panggil ambulance sbb abah tak boleh nak bangun. Last month mase balik pg, pon abah x brape sihat. Batuk almost a month & effect pinggang plak. Time kat masjid raka'at kedua, dah x boleh bangun. Balik masjid org hantar sbb abah x boleh bangun. I did told him earlier if x larat, dok je la rumah tak payah pi masjid. Then he replied, 'kalu jadi ape2 pon ada ramai org kat masjid tu boleh tolong...' and lagi satu ayat nih aku tak sanggup plak nak tulis...Last week nak balik, Iman plak kene chicken pox..

Sekarang nih mak dah getting better lepas minor operation tuh. Abah pon dh Ok...Alhamdulillah..Along & Angah pon ade tgk derang..if not, memang tak bagi Mak & Abah dok sendiri kat pg nun. I'm looking forward to see them the soonest possible...

2) Not so old MAID

Bibik will be taking her 1 month leave starting mid of ramadhan until mid of syawal. By rite, she can't go back until Feb 09 but I'm a very 'kind-hearted' and I guess u know it. She said she will surely be back until her contract ends but to continue or not, there are some conditions for negotiable. I think I know what she will be demanding for...naik gaji, keluar jalan2 once a month..God knows what else on her mind. Me & JC did discuss abt it & we decided to hear what she wants & see whether her demand is fulfillable or not. Will be sending the kids to the nursery nearby while she is away. Hope that the kids will be doing fine there. I don't like the situation where I have to depends on the maid. Menyampah nye rase bile derang terase penting!!..

3) House for sale

Anyone interested to buy rumah burukku ini? We plan to berhijrah ke Bangi since I work there. Sejak minyak naik 0.78 sen nih, memang kene carik umah dekat. Sayang betul sebulan kene spent 300 utk minyak + 128 utk tol. Kerajaan Selangor, bile nak hapuskan tol neh?..House info - Location : Seksyen 26, Tmn Bukit Saga, Shah Alam. Selling below market price. Near LDP, KESAS, ELite and highways under the sun!!..hehe. Further call me at 0133973060. If nobody wants, terpakse le duduk jer umah nih..kene pk nak renovate pulok..huhu

4) Another blog

I want to create one more blog - all abt financial & all I can sell..hehe..tapi bile pk balik..ade ke mase aku nk update..blog nih pon sgt payah nak update..teeheehee..btw, I just registered as a tupperware dealer. Sebenanye utk kegunaan sendiri. But if anyone interested to buy, sure I will sell ler..I'm also a UT Consultant but only for myself & hubby. Anyone interested to invest in Public Mutual, tell me, ya..Ape lagi?..ooo..I'm thinking of providing a transportation service to work. Rase macam satu kerugian bawak keta beso tuh sensorg. But only for those working nearby jer le.Ok tak kalu aku tampal iklan kat board office building tuh? Malu banget nk buat iklan tuh. hehe..

Ok la for now..signing off at 2.01 a.m..(I told u, it's quite an effort to update blog!!)

ciken pok

2008-07-03T21:21:00.005+08:00

It's almost a month I'm dealing with the kids chicken pox. Muhriz is the starter. 2 weeks later, Iman's turn. Muhriz tak le terok sgt kene..Iman yg kene teruk..abes satu badan + muke bertompok..asik merengek nk dokong..maybe sbb merenyam kot. Itu ler, dd's suggestion soh amik chicken pox imunisation hanya seperti angin lalu saje..huhu..Iman jugak la yg menderita and aku jugak yg tokleh tido malam..

But, kesengsaraan itu akan berakhir jua..Iman dah getting better. Once a while she will look at her hand and said 'Pok...'(Chicken Pox la tuh..nk sebut penuh x reti!!). She will took the calamine lotion and ask me or bibik to put it on her body whenever she felt itch...shian 'shentol' ku itu..

Compare Iman & Muhriz's face..si pembawa kene sikit jer.. yg menjangkit kene truk..isk..

3 series

2008-05-23T16:47:00.005+08:00

Alhamdulillah..I'm entering a '3 series' era of my life..not much different from the previous birthday..sama jugak. Except that this year, my better half lupe nk wish on time..I'm not a 'sulker' type of person anyway..lucky him!!..

ooh..by the way, I have 2 dates actually..my mom used to tell me actually I was born on 20MAY, but register lambat 3 hari..bole gitu?..so, my official B.O.D jadik la 23MAY..I prefer to use 23MAY..ntah la..maybe because it was not stated anywhere that my actual b'day was 20MAY..dat's why..ntahapehape..

Thanks to those who wish me..FARRAH,FARAH (the twin), ZIZAH,SAKDI,NIE,DD, LILY, KAM, FYZA, NITA and JONO..i'm so touched!!....hehe..Jono mmg never missed to wish me..every year since blah dari SMSJ..when is his b'day ye?..anybody knows?

nothing much to wish..hope this 3 series era brings keberkatan rezeki, kesihatan yg baik, kekayaan in all aspects for me & family & frens & everibodi..jauhkan lah dari segale musibah & kejahatan..AMIN ya rabbal alamin..:-)

2008-05-03T11:51:00.008+08:00

The Last Weekend of April

Saturday

Went to a newly launched SPA owned by Nuha's sister.This is one of the reason I can't join a get-together session with another set of frens.. The SPA is located at Bandar Puteri, Puchong. No - I'm not that type of person who loves to pamper my body..This is so 'once in a blue moon' activity, ok. Just want to support k.ida's business. Yeah, hope her business doing well...pelan-pelan kayuh..;-)

See, my foot after doing a 'foot massage'+ manicuere or pedicure..or whatever..!!

Sunday

Outing with Mudon+Didie+K1+Yasmin. We went to Mines after had a lunch at Awan Besar R & R.Grab a chance to ride on the boat. Saje je..melayan bebudak nih..Muhriz as usual takut x pepasal. K1 mmg super duper excited..hehe..

Enjoy the pics!!

Terlupe nk amik gambo lelauk tuh sebelum abes..

Aren't they look alike?..I mean K1 & Muhriz..kan?

Boat riding @Mines

hepi besday mummy didie..;-)

2008-04-18T16:55:00.004+08:00

hepi besday to mummy didie..;-)..murah rezki & sehat selalu di samping anak2 yg cumil & mungil beserte hubby yg ganteng!! ..muahsss..

p/s: tu jer gambo ko versi digital yg aku ade kt henpon ..uhuks..sunggoh sadiss..

Every morning..

2008-04-17T17:20:00.000+08:00

Feeling very good this morning. Turn on ERA.FM as usual but the DJs were so syok sendiri. The 3 stooges were on leave I guess..Boring la the new DJ nih. So today, decided to tukar selera to HOT.FM. Not bad gak la stesen radio nih. Suddenly ade plak lagu 'Janji Manismu by Aishah' ke udara..ape lagi.. singing my heart out la kan..Lagu nostalgia tuh..teringat time orientasi From 1 dolu. Si EON a.k.a EEN a.k.a Fadzureena pi nyanyi lagu nih..hehe..lawaks..

kalu Ramli M.S dengo gua nyanyi kt dalam keta nih sure dia soh replace tmpt dgn si SAIDA tuh..hehehe..mau nanges beb!!..but no worries SAIDA, laki gua sure tak kasik punye lah...itu sudah melanggar tatasusila diriku sebagai muslimah dan ibu sejati!!..ahaks..

Ok..just to share my routine before I turn on the radio..

1. Bace Al-Fatihah

2. Bace Ayat Kursi

3. Bace 3 Qul

Pehtu baru la buleh start buat pape yg patot kt dalam keta tuh..Insya-Allah selamat..;-)..okeh..

Recent Events with Pics..

2008-04-14T13:42:00.012+08:00

Hehe..I'm so lazy to blog. Feeling blues this Monday morning. No urgent thing to catch up in the office. So, I guess I'll wrap up 'Events with pics' happen to us since last time I update this blog..

;-)..Nothing much to write, just want to share pics of my lil ones..

21FEB08 - Iman's 1st Birthday

Insist him to hold a bigger party for her but as usual - my request & appeal were falling on deaf ears once again. He don't want to hold any birthday party for the kids, ok!!..We bought a cake and invite Alang anak beranak + awek BIL. That's all..btw, the scarf Iman wear on below pics only last for 1 day jer. bought that for only rm2..hehe..the dress - bought it from 'jumbo sale' dd hold for me only!!..hiks..didie, bile nk buat blog jual barang?..

Dania's birthday @KFC Wangsa Maju.

Only the 2 of us went there - Me & Muhriz. Met Intan, Sakdi & Farrah..recognized few familiar faces..Most of them are ex-MCB.

Alamanda Putrajaya

Actually main purpose is to purchase a cheaper 'PET PET' for the kids at CARREFOUR. hehe..considering the tolls & petrol, the price goes higher than actual price!!. Went there to jalan2 oso..So, no issue here ok!!.Iman & Muhriz on Thomas..

Ustaz wannabe

The kopiah bought by his Nenek. Buah tangan dari Mekah..

'Hantu Mate'

He will do that face if I asked him to show me how 'Hantu Mata' looks like..!!

Picnic di Sg Tekala

2008-02-12T14:58:00.000+08:00

Shah Alam spt di langgar garoda..long holiday ( 4 days consider long enuff la kan?) and everybody took this opportunity to balik kampung..unlike us!!JC need to be on standby mode since it's his turn to hold the pager..no way to stay at home,ok..the kids will surely shows their 'taring' and bermulalah adegan jerit menjerit, kemas mengemas mainan yg di campak2 keluar dari laci tv tu and tarik menarik kakiku & minta di dokong 24 hours!!(Si Iman la tuh..)..So, in order to avoid this to happen consecutively in 4 days, we decided to MELARAM with the new GL to Sungai Tekala..berkelah di air terjun!!..The more the merrier, kan? We angkut Alang anak beranak (5 of them) + 5 of us = 10 org in the GL..ok la tuh..saje nk test power keta baru.We reached there at abt 9.30 a.m. Not so many people yet. Since there are 10 of us + a lot of brg mkanan such as Nasik Lemak + Sandwich + Air kat dalam tangki kecik tu + etc nak kena bawak, we choose our port so very near to the entrance..Iman was so excited..sampai menggigil budak tomey tuh..hehe..Macam biasa, Muhriz masih tidak mahu menjejakkan kaki di sungai itu walaupun di gigi air huhu....:-(..
Next destination?Where? When?

What's new..?

2008-02-12T14:00:00.003+08:00

At last we got our new grand livina!!..after waiting abt 2 months, the new car is ready to be own by us..Alhamdulillah..at the same time, got this senti'mentel' (borrowing this word from ngantukalways!!) feeling when it is time to let go WIRA..sedih jugak..eventhough that is JC's car, it did contribute a LOT to me..I mean US..that WIRA lah yg berjasa menghantar kami (me, Muhriz & Iman - of course drove by JC) to the hospital when I'm ready to deliver the lil ones..isk..terase macam nak buat karangan 'AKU SEBIJIK WIRA' jek...huhu..di kesempatan ini jugak ingin ku tepekkan WIRA kesayangan kami!!..If anyone of u guys see/own/ride etc this car, would be very glad if u could at least text and tell me that 'he' is okay & doing very fine with the new majikan!!..hehe..

if kancil yang menjadi korban, lagi la sedihh..
ok..enuff abt the WIRA..have a sneek peek at our new family member..tadaa..not bad, huh?..;-)

Last friday we went to JJ IOI. The main objective - me to find a replacement for the purse which I've been using for almost 4 years..hehe..barang hantaran kawen tu tau..!! another senti'mentel' feeling we have here..hehe..but i'm not throwing away the old one..as usual..simpan!!..sume barang pon mmg suke sgt simpan and makes the other half start membebel (hey, he has that capability tau!!)..then, along the way to the purse display area, unintentionally grab this one attracted shirt, and unintentionally headed to the fitting room and guess what? it fits me well !!!..i bought it for a reason ok..

1) I got this tudong biru which I can't wear it due to no match

2) I have this black pants which only match with 1 shirt

3) I only use 4% from my bonus, OK..still got 96% to simpan the remaining..(tatau la bape lame buleh simpan...huhu..semoga diriku ini dapat mengekang hawe nafsuku ini..Aminnn..)

It's all about the money..

2008-01-17T23:49:00.000+08:00

I started interested in money matters since last year. Can't remember the exact date..I know it's late..but who cares..bought few Azizi Ali's book, took CUTE exam ( sorry CHO for wasting ur time..and wasting my money too..uhuhuk..nope..not wasting actually.i gain knowledge abt UT - from 0 to not so 0..Currently gaining the energy and considering the exact date on when to start..),join few forums and glued to our few local financial blogs(that's why spiderweb is all over my blog..haha)..don't ask how much saving I have..I just started OK..perhaps by end of the year I have 'this target figure' in my ASB..don't want to tell u. You might say 'hek eleh, xde la byk beno pon target ko' or 'manyakknye..mintak sikit..'..hehe..just joking..

Credit Cards
Most of us have this at least one. Myself have 2 MBB cards, 2 RHB Cards, 2 Citibank = 6 cards..huh?..i did not realize that I have this number of Credit Cards!!.. Had cancelled 3 cards before..hmm..luckily. Credit Cards is a nice thing to have. It is not a must have item. You need to know how to control using credit card. Make sure you don't have to pay for the annual fees. What I did to CITIBANK was I called them & request for card termination. Sure they will offer for an annual fee waiver. Of course they won't let u have it free forever. So, it's ur call to threaten them every year for card termination. Few months back, they offer to upgrade to GOLD card which will increase the credit limit to 10k..thinking back abt the annual fee waiver(u think the annual fee will remain free?..i don't think so!!..but who knows they might waived..??..maleh plak nk try..) - i did reject the offer, and caused the tele-marketer was so 'bengang' at me..I can feel it thru her voice..from soft to not so soft spoken..hehe..standard la tu..

Make sure you pay before due date to avoid unnecessary interest. In case you dont know, Credit Card interest is 18% per annum, daily compunded. Interest free for 20 days. But starting this year, reduce to 15% per annum..and again terms & condition apply. If possible, don't let the bank gain the interest. They already have had enough of it.

Somebody told me that you can make money by using your credit cards..Trying to figure it out on how to do that...any ideas?

Al-Rajhi Charge Card
Have you tried AlRajhi Charge Card?. This card is really good they say. But u have to bear with them..they took ages to approve the card. Few attractions - Cash advance rm10 per rm1500 - INTEREST FREE for 55 days. Consider a free money for 55 days..hehe..already applied yet to receive..dd, have u tried yours?

EPF
Do you know that we can took out our money from EPF for certain reasons such as UT investment, monthly withdrawal for housing loan, etc..New thing I learn abt EPF is that, starting this year, they allow us to increase our employee contribution up to 15%. This will be a good chance for those yg dh start kene income tax. It is better to increase the EPF contribution or pay your zakat same as ur income tax rather than giving it to the government..oopps..sori Pak Lah..Saya bukan lari dari cukai..saya cuma elak cukai..;-)

Housing Loan
I just found & discover through my readings & subscription to finacial blogs & forum that actually you can have your own house for free!!..I'm not kidding..of course - terms & conditions apply. I'm not interested to tell the whole story here. Too many things to explain - end up with more spiderwebs on my blog..

Car Loan
Nothing much we can do with car loan. For those who really can 'tahan' their nafsu from buying a car, they will opt for using public transport because a CAR is liability forever. Eventhough u already paid the loan, but still u have to consider the petrol yg naik dan naik always, tollsamy, maintenance..etc. Furthermore, market value always have a decreasing grapph unlike if you buy a house...i'm really aware abt this but i'm only human..tempting for a new car which can fit us + the bibik..tungguuu..hehe..

Conclusion
It is all about manipulation of financial products we have in the market..we have everything here. In order to use it, you must know exactly the product features and how it can benefit you..forums are everywhere & free infos are there..the choice is yours whether you want to explore or just follow the flow. This tagline of Azizi Ali millionaires planet really inspires me.."Life is too short to be ordinary"..

tata..see u in my next posting..;-)

Nigella versi Melayu..

2007-12-06T12:05:00.000+08:00

Pre-requisite : Kene ade oven..kalu xde, pi bli dulu..

Simple gile cara nk membuat sadin puff seperti gamba di atas..x payah tulis pon just tgk gambo tuh dh buleh follow..ok la..ni step2 dia:-

1) Bli ROTI PARATHA cap Kawan or Karts.
2) Buat la inti sadin..kalu tau cemane nk buat sandwich, tau la cemane nk buat inti sadin. Kalu maleh nk buat inti sadin, pi bli TUNA.
3) Potong Roti kepade 2 or 4 - ikut suka hati
4) Bubuh inti tuh kt roti tu
5) Ketip tepi roti tuh guna garfu..macam dlm gambo..
6) Sapu telor
7) Masukkan dlm Oven - guna suhu 180 darjah celsius
8) Set timer 20-30 minit. 40 minit pon buleh..
9) Bile oven tu bedenting, kuarkan karipap guna penyepit- x kang melecur plak jari jemari yg halus tu
10) Makan..

Sedapp tau..so far dh buat 3x..MIL, akak2ku..sume nya impressed dgn kebolehanku..hahaha...

P/S : Thanks to Husna for the receipe..;-)

One day leave..

2007-11-29T10:34:00.000+08:00

A fully utilized one day leave I must say..I went out at 9.00 a.m and back home at 6.30 p.m..almost the same time as normal working hours!!..

Kancil service appointment @GLENMARIE
What did I do?..Well, car service appointment at 8.50 a.m, and I arrived at 9.30 a.m..actually I went out almost 9am..hehe..I just smiled at the mechanic and told him that the traffic was so bad due to hujan..like he asked..terase bersalah pulak..hey, I'm the customer & customer is always right, didn't you know that??!!..

Of course i bring Muhriz along with me. Let Iman & bibik have their own sweet time at home. I used to bring Muhriz anywhere I go. He - while in the car is much much behave compared at home. I guess most of kids at his age are like that...Luckily, at the service centre, they have a very comfortable waiting area with a playground for kids. Anyway, Muhriz was not so excited with the playground pon..main la sekejap lepas tuh buat sesuka hati macam rumah sendiri. The car is ready nearly 12pm..without the lock repaired!!..hampeh gak la service centre nih..then, I told the mechanic that my car still have a problem with the door lock. I want it to be repaired & I don't care. Then, he asked me to wait until 1.30pm since it was nearly lunch. So, I decided to go somewhere else while waiting for 1.30pm.

SYABAS @KLANG
Not to pay bill. Went there for 'urusan pertukaran nama'. 6 person before my turn but I felt like ages waiting. Only one counter open due to lunch hour. I did complaint to the person there ( he is not the customer service guy, but who cares!!). But I appreciate his effort for ensuring that the form that I filled is complete with all the documents and photostate the IC..at least, he can reduce my 'angriness'(is there such a word..sori mem..). At about 2.30pm, settled at SYABAS.

Back to GLENMARIE
What a waste of time, don't u think?..What to do...it is fated to be this way..haha..went for zohor prayer there before went down to cuci mate tgk MyVi. Saje test tanye the salesman about my Kancil market value - if I want to trade in..( dear kancil, I was just asking..no hard feeling ya..). Then, the salesman & his boss I guess, went out to value the kancil..tgk2 mane yg kemek etc.etc..he asked me how much do I expected to get..12K?..He said cannot lor..max he can give around 10.5K..one of the reason is because the plate number is J..takut keta banjir..macam la keta W or B xde possibility kene banjir..ntahapeapentah..gedebuk gedebak kalu nk bli MyVi yg paling murah, considering trade in Kancil, I need to apply for 28K loan, installment about RM450/mth for 7 years..hutang lagi...kancil dh abeh bayo,no more hutang keta - nk tambah utang lagi??isk..isk..if the rm450 tuh masok ASB for 7 years, dpt la rm37800 - tuh x masok 8% dividen ASB lagi tuh..dh buleh bli cash jek keta, kan..? I guess the Kancil will be maintaned forever kot..Cume WIRA tuh la kene tuko nnti..hehe..( dear hubby, tuko jek la WIRA tuh dgn STREAM baru tuh..2 tahun lagi eh?..hubby said: ok dear, whatever u say..:p..hmm..berangan jek la..)..DELAY OF GRATIFICATION is what they call it - means the ability to forgo an immediate pleasure or reward in order to gain a more substantial one later...- is what I'm doing now...

BNM CCRIS Report @KL
GG : Ket (nama manje for my buddy while in PPP), ko tlg checkkan no tepon BNM Customer Service, then tlg call kan skali tanyekan dia kaunter nk check CCRIS report tutop kol bape..pastuh call aku

Ket : isk..x reti la nk tanye cemane..

GG : Ko tanye jek kaunter CCRIS bukak smp kol bape..isk..please..aku kt Glenmarie servis keta. Keta aku dh nk siap dh nih..agak2 kalu sempat aku nk pi BNM amik report tuh..nnti ko SMS or call aku balik..

Ket : Ye lah..

10 minit berlalu..

GG : Oit..awat x call aku balik..?

Ket : Hehe..credit abes..kaunter tutop kol 5.

GG : K lah..tengkiu..

The car is ready by 4.15pm..another 45 minutes to be there at BNM. This is what they called - Nak seribu daye..haha..I managed to arrived BNM at about 4.50pm..Luckily the traffic was not so bad..hmmm, my CCRIS report looks ok..but I was quite surprised to see that all credit cards which already been terminated still exist in the report. Need to do something about it...

Mission completed at 6.30pm...( but no so complete eceli, sambung kluar umah lps maghrib carik tong sampah yg dh hancuss kene lenyek dgn sape ntah..maleh dh nk sambung kang x terpublish plak entry nih...)

Muhriz berposing kt depan SYABAS..ade kolam kecik & ikan didalamnye..

Salam Aidilfitri sume..

2007-10-31T16:16:00.000+08:00

malehnye nk update belog nih..since ikek da sound, kugagahi jua utk meng update..hmm..nobody around in my department unit including the boss + no problems reported..I guess this is the time..;-)

Beraye di kampung
This year batu pahat's turn..it's ok with me since i'm so used to balik batu pahat so often compared to pasir gudang..normally we lepak @atuk's hse @Sg Nibong, Semerah. I like the kampung environment due to it's freshnes air & hutan dara. Thinking of to settle down here lepas pencen nanti..hahah.

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Jalan2 Carik Duit Raya..
Raya eve still ongoing & few open houses attended. 1st house that we went for open hse cum birthday party was ikek's hse @ bkt antarabangsa. me & hubby are both teruja with the welcoming environment @ bkt antarabangsa entrance. we just don't expect that there are still green area there. jams that we were facing @ampang area were suddenly gone once we turn left to bkt antarabangsa...few pics were taken at ikek's hse except mine since me always being a photographer..it's ok la..not so much of interest to begamba takot terover expose plaks..huhuh.

'Not So Open' House
few of my 'still single' friends keep on asking for Open House..So I think y not since this is the time to berjejak kasih dgn my close friends during school & college. Quite satisfied with the attendance & x byk left over..so x le membazir..me not invite so many people sbb takut x leh handle. but for those yg x di invite so sorry coz i plan this last minute. jemput mane yg teringat saje..My house condition oso not so good & nothing changed except that we reposition the dining & living hall..kusen langsir malah kapet pon tak bertukar ganti..ape yg ade saje..half of the L shape sofa di humban ke tingkat atas to create more space..so tinggal la I shape sofa kt living hall tuh..this year we are so ala-kad(ala kadar)..next year rumah baru..hahahhaa..how I wish..
macam biase bile dh bz melayan org telupa la plak nk mangambik gambo sakan..cume few pics were taken with my MCB friends...gambo mkanan yg ku masak sendirik pong lupe nk amik..:-(..hampe...
Muhriz start tunjuk belang when ikek, kay & ilie came. I also surprised when he hug kay sesuke hati..Jib siap marah ade org lain pelok mommy die..x silap ilie pon di peloknye..me & jc always said that he is so 'kurang kasih sayang' sbb asik jek nk attention more than Iman..hihih..but Muhriz mmg manja sgt..!!

Malam pon ade few lagi guest yg dtg including Mudon & DD..Mudon gave his 'FREE Consultation' on financial planning to JC while DD & me dok menengok si Kewan & Muhriz mengganazzz..

p/s

it is quite an effort to update this blog actually..huhuh..mane nak tepek gambo, edit susun bagai...wohohoh..if only my boss know what i'm doing for this 2 hours!!!

Me & lil ones..

2007-10-08T16:49:00.000+08:00

This entry is purposely created to 'tepek' my latest pic with my lil ones..Seldomly u can see my pics anywhere bcoz I'm the one who took the pics. This picture below is taken by JC. Need to train bibik how to snap pics so that everybody can be fit in the photos..It was early in the morning before we went to work. It is my routine to bring Muhriz keliling kedai before I can go off to work..I don't know when he will stop doing that..x sampai hati plak if I ignore his request..moms these days..always x sampai hati menghampakan permintaan anaknya...huhuhuh.

These pics pulak buka puasa @SACC Mall Pizza Hut. We didn't plan for that buka puasa actually. Suddenly JC suggest for that since my BIL just got his PERSONA the day before. Kereta baru mmg la best. Muhriz asik la melompat2 kt dlm keta and said..'keta shantik'..hahah..pandai pulak dia menilai keta cantik...So hubby - maknenya keta kita mmg dh x cantik and it is time for replacement...it is not me saying...it is Muhriz..said it indirectly..;)

RAYA mood oredi

2007-10-08T16:10:00.000+08:00

Seriously..I'm in RAYA mood oredi..No mood to do anything esp office tasks..I guess I'm not alone..akak opis nih pon dh macam ala2 maleh gak nk buat keje..xde plak orang pasang lagu raye kt opis nih..or that is prohibited?..ntah la..I'm a new staff here...Ape nk citer for today..after 'teruja' dok tgk awie's sosej roll, I decided to test my baking skill..heheh..last Saturday morning, we went to MYDIN USJ and bought all the necessary ingredients...actually, I'm quite 'ambitious'..it's not only the sosej roll I want to try, but also nak buat muffin pisang(since ade byk pisang baru bawak blk dari kg), brownies and also bun daging..actually the bun daging's recipe is quite similar to the sosej roll. The only different is just the inti..one is sosej and the other is the so called daging..hihih..the effort of cooking the inti daging tu makes me cancelled the plan to make the bun daging..as for brownies, i got all the ingredients needed..the only thing that i don't have is just the 10"x10" tray..I don't know what size of tray do I have at home..tatau nk measure camne..due to the uncertainty of the outcome, i decided to cancel that also..perhaps tomorrorw nite?..or after i manage to buy the 10"x10" tray?..hihih..perhaps..perhaps..perhaps..back to the sosej roll story..yup, i managed to snap the sosej roll pic only before it went into the oven..the 'after' output is not bad at all..but few are lil bit 'geseng'(hangus ye kengkawan)...but still can be eaten. x sempat nk amik gambo sbb bateri henpon dh kong.Muhriz was so 'eager' helping me out in the kitchen. He tot that I want to make donuts. I don't know how he got that idea..he keep on telling me 'nak onat..nak onat..'. Btw, donut is his fav food. I told him to wait until further notice..ngeheheh..so do u think he listened to me..of course not!!..still continuing helping..Muhriz mmg sgt rajin..hopefuly smp besar..;-)..maybe he was so tired waiting for the donut..x sempat nk masak die dh tetido..until he woke up & teringat plak kt donut and started to ask me for donut again. When I gave him the sosej, he refuse to eat..maybe he did not expected the donut to be in that manner..hahhah..die cume letak di hujung bibir then keep on bugging me for the donut..and me - apesal la x terpk nk set aside sket utk buat donut for him..isk..isk..hampeh gak la..then, JC pon terpakse la pi ke kedai berhampiran utk mendapatkan donut sbb Muhriz dh start melalak..unluckily the donut dh habis..luckily, ade la kuih yg physically smilar to donut yaitu kuih keria..hihih..sib baik Muhriz blum pandai menilai rase..hahahah..So here it is, the-not-so-impressive Sosej Roll pic before ia mengembang and went into the oven..

I was once thinking of quitting my job and set up a bakery shop...after went thru the making of the sosej roll..I don't think i have enuff skill for that..hihih..kuat berangan aku neh..:-P

I'm a new staff here..

2007-10-01T13:24:00.000+08:00

My workplace - cantik tak view die..?

It has been 4 months being a new staff @ARHETPEE Peng (bukan nama sebenar)..2 months until the status change to 'CONFIRM'.Being 'Under Probation' staff is not gud at all. Applying for Personal Loan is quite tough. I mean Personal Loan with good rates. There are loans which u can apply easily but look at the interest rate..hmm..kene pk byk kali.

Thank goodness if u are government staff. All banks berebut2 nak kasik pinjam with very low interest rate.

kenape eh?..That is one of the advantage being a gomen servant. So next time, if they call me for an interview - jgn la x pi ye..;-P

Why do I need that Personal Loan?..No - I'm not applying that to renovate my house, nor pay for WISH downpayment..I need that ( I mean WE..) for platform creation. Platform that will enable us to do many things - 4 digits saving, home loan, car loan, holiday bajet, child education, pi haji, tabung emergency, parents monthly allowance - that WISH will come later. Hopefuly things will go as per plan...insyaAllah...;-)

I guess the Tajuk suda lari wooo..

I wish to have WISH (Hubby..please read this)

2007-09-28T12:43:00.000+08:00

Every day, I drive to work. It takes about 25 minutes to reach office. From office to home also almost the same duration..but extra 3km..Journey to office and back to home is quite monotonous..Nothing interesting to look at. Looking at different types of LUXURY CARS on the road makes me wonder - 'ORANG KL (org selangor is included ye) NIH KAYE2'..BESA AGAKNYE GAJI DIORANG NIH..'..hmm..is it?.
Me - have a dream also..looking at the title, I guess I don't have to mention what is that car I dream of..The price is almost the same as single storey linked hse at klang valey area..the 2nd hand pon still 100k++..sighhhh..but I dont want the 2nd hand..nak yang baruuuuuuu..my new hobby is counting on how many WISHes on the road, comparing the colours of WISHes(white & red had caught my eyes..black pon boley la)..

hmm..nafsu..oh nafsu..

My Kancil will be fully settled by this coming raye(insyaAllah..)..less one burden..BUT thinking to add one more burdern which cost 5x the current burden..x paham?.x paham xpe..

Anyone out there dare to sponsor?...hihih..in my dreammm..

My lovely daughter

2007-09-27T16:29:00.001+08:00

Saje test anto gambo dr hp

My 1st Entry..

2007-09-27T10:36:00.000+08:00

Salam..

Nothing much to say..So much of free time which I think need to be fully utilized in very useful ways...Hmm..blogging?..I'm not so good in writing..BUT, this blog is not to impress you guys..just to share something. Something which I can't bear to keep it to myself..

Ok..stop here for now..if I continues - then the "Nothing much to say" thing will be valid no more..:-)..cheers..