Pembuka tirai 2009 - we went to Al-Fatih Integrated Preschool for Muhriz's registration. He is not so excited when we tell him that he will start the school session very soon. Harap2 when the 1st day come, he will able to accept the fact. I'll take half day leave sbb mintak sehari x dapat pasl seme org sebok nk nganto anak2 masing. These days mmg kalu anak sekolah, makbapak kene cuti seminggu. Nothing wrong with that and hopefully anak2 will appreciate that by being a very good khalifah, at least..:-). Apart of the registration, ada juga diselitkan bengkel keibu bapaan by Khalifah Institute rep which I found it very interestting and really hope more parents have the opportunity to join this type of bengkel. Few notes on the bengkel that I can still remember:-
1. Perlu berTEGAS dgn anak-anak tapi dgn Kasih Sayang. Yang penting jgn tengking sbb otak kanak2 ni mcm sponge. Kalau parents jenis suka tengking and marah, budak2 nih akan absorb benda yg sama..huhu..I think I need to slowly follow this.
2. Banyakkan GANJARAN - means bukan material semata. Ganjaran boleh jadi dgn pujian saja. If the kids do something good, puji depan muka dia ataupon hugs them dgn kasih sayang, jgn simpan dalam hati. Sbb dgn puji2 an tu, they will enjoy doing good things - Sebenarnya, baru je gula2kan Iman dgn jajan supaya dia tak nanges nk ikut kami ke Digital Mall..isk..isk..
3. Selalunya kalau buat jahat je, parents akan cakap - nanti masuk neraka, etc. Budak2 akan takut so tak buat jahat. Tapi, bila dh hilang takut, they will start buat jahat lagi. Kalau ikut konsep Khalifah ni, they will change from takut2kan to kasih Sayang. Contohya, kalau nk suruh anak2 solat, cakap la dgn budak2, nanti Allah sayang, instead of 'nanti masok neraka'. Allah dah beri nikmat makan, minum, tidur, main etc - so xkan nk solat pon x boleh kan?. - Tis one mmg memerlukan kesabaran yg tinggi. kalau tak boleh jugak baru sebat dgn talipinggang..hehe..ni paling berkesan tapi utk jangkamase pendek saja...
4. Focus on PERIBADI bukan EDUCATION semata-mata - I think we lack on this at school. Semua nk kejar 'A' tapi sahsiah diri tolak tepi. Sbb tu ada kes sekolah tinggi2, tp ikut boipren kafir kawin lari..nauzubillah hi min zalik..mintak jauh sgt menda nih terjadi kpd kaum keluagaku & sahabat2..Bila PERIBADI dh kukuh, insyaAllah ke mana pon budak2 ni di campak, dia akan pandai bawa diri & jaga nama baik keluarga..Ye, parents mana tanak anak2 dia berjaya, kan..?
We spent half a day kt Al-Fatih. Lepas tu kami ke Digital Mall kt PJ carik henpon..:-)..We bought new handphones(trade in 2b precise)..the hubby insists,i just folo....dulu,asal beranak je tuka hp.but tis time around,x ngandung pun dh tuka baru..sy bukannya suka sgt tuka2 henpon.kalau bole nk pkai smp akhir hayat(x kira la hayat hp or me yg smp dulu)..tp tu ler..harap2 henpon ni bertahan lama..it's W902 for me & W890 for hubby. Mine, of course nak the best camera features. I grab for 5.Mega Pixels, 8GB memory card..hehe takpe buleh make it as USB drive..:-)
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Muhriz menjadi bahan ujikaji utk henpon baruku..;-)
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bagusla kau gjie...ada parenting skill yang amat :)..keep it up ,my fen!!:)
good choice. kat JB ni payah nk carik skola yg cengitu. very limited. need to send aryssa to fardu ain class on weekends. dia cam penat but kena lalui
Nie, hehe..aku pon x sangke plak tadika tuh ade selitkan bengkel cenggitu tp ok la tuh..aku suke..:-)
Rozie, kt BSP nih mmg agak byk tadika & ade 2-3 yg yg lebih kurg mcm alfatih ni. Mungkin sbb majority sini melayu and umur kita2..:-)